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So, I'm wondering about different methods to force yourself to have a ruined orgasm. I've tried searching on the net, but I haven't been very successful. Obviously it's alot easier if you have a partner do this for you, but I'd appreciate tips, comments, suggestions and possibly guides on how to deny yourself an orgasm.
The effect I'm looking for is to actually have the cum make its way through my penis but being forced back down before it is able to shoot out, causing extreme frustration.
Any ideas?
You can have the semen come up the shaft but not come out by simply taking a tight grip and forcing it to go back into the bladder.
BUT...for a real 'ruinied orgasm' you have to edge and avoid contractions. You edge so long that the glands fill with semen and finally there is no more room, so it just dribbles out. The important thing is "No Contractions". Once you accomplish that, you have a true ruined orgasm.
At least that's my experience.
I find trying to "choke" it back down with my own hands is kinda hard, as I usually let go. Either I just need training or a solution to it. I've tried tying a tight rope around the shaft to prevent any cum to come out, but it usually is able to shoot out despite my efforts. And I don't know if it's too safe to tie it too tight.
I've only been able to prevent any cum to come out once by tying a rope around the base of the shaft, but after that I've been unsuccessful with it. :/
*Bump* Anyone got any ideas to share to accomplish this?
womble
07-05-2010, 03:51 AM
Personal I always thought a ruined orgasm was when you orgasmed but don't get the full pleasure from it.
I think it is when you start to orgasm but once having started all stimulation is removed and your orgasm fails to complete with the normal intensity.
As to whether your spunk comes out the end or not I think is not the point. Most men would get some release as a dribble opposed to a gush.
Try wanking yourself, as soon as you feel your going to cum and are past the point of no return then pull your hands away, if you can. You should start to orgasm but then stop and you shouldn't get the full pleasure from it.
Stitch
08-07-2010, 04:13 PM
If it's really too hard for you to pull your hands away in time, you could try a timed method. Every 2-3 days, time how long it takes for you to cum. (DO NOT masturbate at all in between) Then after about 5-6 times, so about two and a half weeks later, you'll be able to take an average. Minus one or two minutes (you'll have to experiment a little) and thats how long it should take for you to edge/ just feel the contractions about to start.
Again, this is still on the basis that if you pull your hands away, you reach back. :)
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