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yvonnewilcox
07-30-2008, 07:41 AM
I have a question, if a man enjoys anal play performed by a female, does that mean he is gay? Would you say that he has thoughts of being with a man at some point in his life?

I often wonder if it is the act that makes you gay? Just because a man enjoys the feeling of anal penetration does not mean he is gay.
Night-1990
07-30-2008, 07:45 AM
No, to me it just means he enjoys being topped by women really, i like it and i'm straight, gay would define sex with another male, where if a female is wearing a strap-on and takes him up the ass, could mean he enjoys femdom.
tie_me_up_now
07-31-2008, 12:09 PM
To me it just sounds like he likes anal.
aika
08-02-2008, 03:03 AM
The only reason that male anal stimulation is seen by some people as gay is that sodomy is the most common way for a gay couple to have sex.
ramsies11
08-03-2008, 07:49 PM
no i dont think its gay i just think hes enjoying the sex with the woman(even tho hes the one being penetraited)
voycoup
08-04-2008, 11:22 AM
We engage in it. A lot of good stimulation through that way. For us it started with me wanting to do her anally and she said if your sticking something in me I'm sticking something in you....fair trade...she loves to watch me squirm when she blows me while massaging my prostate...doesn't mean I want dick in there though
yvonnewilcox
08-04-2008, 03:04 PM
No, to me it just means he enjoys being topped by women really, i like it and i'm straight, gay would define sex with another male, where if a female is wearing a strap-on and takes him up the ass, could mean he enjoys femdom.

I have a question for you, can you cum without masturbating yourself while she is inside you with the strapon?
yvonnewilcox
08-04-2008, 03:07 PM
The only reason that male anal stimulation is seen by some people as gay is that sodomy is the most common way for a gay couple to have sex.

So basically what you are saying is, it is not the act that makes you gay, it is the person you chose to do it determines if you are gay or straight? So if a man prefers another man to give him anal pleasure then he is in fact gay BUT if he only wants it from a woman then he is straight. I gotcha. Thanks
Merlin
08-04-2008, 03:16 PM
I know gays that don't want to get fucked in the ass too... that doesn't make them straight...
tie_me_up_now
08-05-2008, 07:55 AM
I know gays that don't want to get fucked in the ass too... that doesn't make them straight...

ok just for merlin we will make this simpler
guy who does stuff with girl: straight
guy who does stuff with guy: gay
guy who does stuff with both: bi
Merlin
08-05-2008, 12:32 PM
ok just for merlin we will make this simpler
guy who does stuff with girl: straight
guy who does stuff with guy: gay
guy who does stuff with both: biinteresting :D i hope you don't mean playing handball if you say stuff :D ;)
yvonnewilcox
08-06-2008, 09:16 AM
I know gays that don't want to get fucked in the ass too... that doesn't make them straight...

Hey wait a minute, these gays that you know that doesn't want to get fucked in the ass, are they fucking ONLY guys in the ass? If they are then they are still gay they just like giving rather than receiving.
Merlin
08-06-2008, 09:59 AM
Hey wait a minute, these gays that you know that doesn't want to get fucked in the ass, are they fucking ONLY guys in the ass? If they are then they are still gay they just like giving rather than receiving.:D my reply was more sarcastic ... i just wanted to say that there are also gays that don't want to get fucked in the ass ... and that this has nothing to do with being gay or straight :D
Momof2
08-08-2008, 06:31 AM
I would think that he jut likes the feeling of it and enjoys it, unless he is out getting men and having anal sex with them then I would be concerned.
yvonnewilcox
08-08-2008, 06:42 AM
I would think that he jut likes the feeling of it and enjoys it, unless he is out getting men and having anal sex with them then I would be concerned.

He must enjoy the feeling and if it does not interfere with him being able to penetrate the female in anyway (mentally or physcially) then I guess it is all good.
sweet10hearts
08-13-2008, 05:54 PM
It just means he likes anal penetration.
TensionRoom101
08-19-2008, 07:01 AM
A lot of men like anal penetration- I know I do. Being a straight Dom doesn't mean you've had your prostate surgically removed after all.

What I will say though, is I defy anyone to have anal sex with a strap on, and not at some point think what it must feel like with a real cock.

Oh, and yes, it is very easy to cum- in abundance- without penile stimulation if you're being penetrated anally.


Mike
rremm2000
09-01-2008, 10:13 AM
I have a question, if a man enjoys anal play performed by a female, does that mean he is gay? Would you say that he has thoughts of being with a man at some point in his life?

I often wonder if it is the act that makes you gay? Just because a man enjoys the feeling of anal penetration does not mean he is gay.

Ha, I think not, I enjoy anal does that make me gay and even if he has thoughts of being with a man it only makes him bisexual not gay.

basically he is not gay unless he goes with men ONLY and never women otherwise he is bi and if it's just any play and has nothing to do with men sexually then he is straight and liberated sexually...my two cents
lestat221
09-03-2008, 04:37 AM
Nothin' wrong with pegging....
aika
09-15-2008, 02:21 AM
lol, epic post.
KinkyKev87
09-16-2008, 06:57 PM
nope i enjoy it and im straight
PiercetheVeil
09-17-2008, 02:44 AM
Surely being gay simply means you are sexually attracted to the same sex, and your main sexual orientation derives towards the same sex. Enjoying anal penetration is nothing to do with your sexuality then.
flyboy7218
09-17-2008, 07:35 AM
there is nothing wrong with a guy enjoying a girl giving him anal play, i love it
Forced2Bhere
09-21-2008, 05:06 AM
I'm a bisexual slave/submissive and I can tell you... Anal does NOT necessarily mean gay. Anal means they like anal play, which can be from anyone of either sex, or from a toy of neither sex.
Dementyia
10-22-2008, 01:20 AM
Sexuality is not who you fornicate with, nor what types of stimulation you enjoy, but who you can fall in love with.

I have known straight men who have experimented with other men. Ten they decided they had discovered what they intended to and moved on with their lives. There was no love, or emotional attachment involved at all, just a physical exploration. Those men were not bisexual or gay, just willing to push their own boundaries in order to experience new things.

Of course I have also known straight women who have experimented with other women, gay men who have experimented with women, and lesbians who have experimented with men. They maintained their sexual preferences throughout their discovery stages, then moved on.