How do you tell your dating partner that you are no longer interested?

[yvonnewilcox]

How do you tell your dating partner that even though they have a good heart and you enjoy being with them but it is certain things that they like that you are not ready to accept.

For example, you meet someone and they like everything about you until one day they tell you, not to wear lipstick, do not cut your hair short, stop wearing mini skirts or you need to buy eyeglasses like my sister wears. All of these things that were ok when you met but now it is a problem.

The problem is telling them you want to break up because they are trying to take away everything that makes you, YOU!

The hard thing is, the sex/lovemaking is outstanding.:eek::confused::mad:

[Chloe]

How about just being honest & say something like "I'm not comfortable in this relationship anymore"...

No offense, it's not only about this thread but more in general: I don't understand why people need to find what to say when something goes wrong... Just tell the truth! :)

I don't think I would find it hard to say if it were really a problem because I doubt I would find sex outstanding with some guy that would want me to wear the same eyeglasses as his sister :D

[yvonnewilcox]

How about just being honest & say something like "I'm not comfortable in this relationship anymore"...

No offense, it's not only about this thread but more in general: I don't understand why people need to find what to say when something goes wrong... Just tell the truth! :)

I don't think I would find it hard to say if it were really a problem because I doubt I would find sex outstanding with some guy that would want me to wear the same eyeglasses as his sister :D

You know you have a point there. I think he probably have a little incest interest in his sister. Hmm baby get the pants my sister wears. Get eyeglasses like my sister. What in the hell is wrong with that guy? LOL:confused:

[Momof2]

It is best to be honest, it happens to the best of us so honesty is the less painful way and it saves on any real misunderstandings later.

[Dementyia]

Honesty is the best policy. I'd have probably told the person that if they didn't like me for me, then why did they decide to date me?

I mean, if you like them a lot, then talk to them. Communication is key in all relationships, that and trust.