men in chastity

[ian]

hi everyone,

i am quite fascinated by the idea of having to wear a chastity device and also tried a few times, but without having someone else (except the danish mail) to keep the keys ;)

but - the more i am reading on the internet the more i get the feeling it is mostly men that are interested in wearing such a thing and not women(!). is that true? and are there women who can't think about other than putting their man into a chastity device? is that what she may get out of it not the biggest manly fantasy thinkable (i think that chastity is a mans fantasy, as it will mean that he gets a lot of "sexual" attention - maybe much more than without the device)

what do you think - happy to learn more ;)
ian

[Agent Green]

I was surprised when I approached my girlfriend with the idea and she was immediately interested. I think it all comes down to open communication about your sexual needs, wants, and desires. My girlfriend thought it was cute I wanted to give chastity to her. Our little trial, and how chastity made me behave cemented the deal. She very quickly loved the idea more than I ever did and would stroke the key on her key-chain whenever we went out.

Communication is KEY! I hear a lot of stories online about women who are freaked out about a husbands/boyfriends chastity fetish. I always wonder how the man presented and explained the idea. Chastity is the ultimate tease and the creates some interesting behaviors in both participants.

I would be interested in hearing a woman's side of the story. I would have my girlfriend post but I am wayyy too embarrassed! :o