Recent content by carnifex

Thanks, I do see a therapist for help with this already, also alanon, but my partner won't seek any help. everyone here is right, it's hard to learn to value my needs over her addiction ,I feel desperate having to wait longer

thanks, I'm flattered, but I'm not here to make my situation more confusing 😁🤗

my partner has fallen deep into her alcoholoism and can barely address a sex life, let alone my kink needs. she is vanilla with a willingness to participate with me, but no desire of her own for it. fast forward 5 years or so of me ignoring it because im codependant , and i prioritized her, not...