Recent content by gbdare

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    Submissive 4 Dominants Intimate exposure play

    Sounds interesting. I'd be up for giving it a try. You may kik me at gbdare or message me here.
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    How do you find a boyfriend if your really really really ugly?

    As others have said, beauty/ugliness is in the eye of the beholder. While it is true that men tend to be visually-oriented when it comes to whom they're attracted to, there are many other factors and a lot of it comes down to your confidence and attitude. I once dated a woman who was never...
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    need honest answers, not sexting.

    From what you've said, she is as (if not more) into the idea as you are, so I don't think you need to worry too much about just being a perv out for your own selfish interests. Even so, fantasy and reality are very different things and what seems hot and exciting in your heads can get...
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    Not sure what to do

    I agree with droptokon and subzzzero. While there are no doubt cases of a vanilla person discovering their kinky side with the help of a kinky partner, that's by far the exception and not the rule. From what you've said, he's probably not going to be one of those exceptions. Most likely, the...
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    exposure

    I used to get naked in public quite a bit and it's a huge rush. I stopped though because I learned what the potential consequences are of getting caught, plus there are cameras everywhere these days which makes it easier to get caught. The law varies considerably from place to place, so...
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    Need advice about self-exposing

    Getting time extensions is somewhat hit or miss, but you might try posting on some of the exhibitionism/exposure groups on fetlife and threads on getdare. As you said, a lot of sites have banned posting with any personal info, but if you want to do more of that (be careful!), you can post...
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    Why am I submissive to this weirdo woman? Is this my kink?

    I'm glad that you are seeing a therapist to help you sort through this and I'm interested to hear more of your stories.
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    Help i put tobasco on my dick

    I haven't had hot pepper on my cock, but I have had the skin around my eyes get burned when picking hot peppers in my friend's garden and wiping sweat from my face. The burning gradually subsided, but it took a few hours and then the area was kind of numb feeling for about a day. I think the...
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    The impossible 🙄

    I once had a guy request a live pic on Kik of me masturbating with one hand and pinching a nipple with the other. I sent him the pic, but taken with my camera on a tripod and using the timer instead of the kik live pic function. He responded with some angry comment about how it was supposed to...
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    Recently divorced and having a standing agreement! Looking for thoughts

    I'm going to answer from the perspective of someone who had the opposite problem in a past relationship. My wife at the time and I were extremely compatible on pretty much everything except sex and she and I essentially stopped having sex. She had no interest in changing that situation and...
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    Question need an answer

    I agree with subzzzero. I'm not all that into BDSM myself, but I have studied quite a bit on sexuality and kink, and the Dom-sub relationship is one of mutual trust, respect, and caring. Yes, you can probably find some women who are so submissive that they'll put up with the kind of treatment...
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    Female Chastity Me and my girlfriend can't take off her chastity belt

    The only thing that comes to mind is finding a skilled locksmith who has the tools and skills to pick the lock. The other option is if the manufacturer of the belt is known, perhaps you can purchase a key from them. Good luck!
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    male chastity question

    I have not tried the CB6000, as I like the look and feel of a metal device, but I see that it comes with 5 different ring sizes. Assuming you've tried the smallest of the rings, the problem may be that you're not getting the ring behind both testicles as well as your cock before you attach the...
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    Show face or not!

    It's only strange to people who think it's strange. My guess is that at least the large majority of people on here won't think it's strange at all. On the other hand, a lot of highly religious people would think that it's not only strange, but would consider it to be sinful and maybe outright...
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    Looking for exposure

    I suggest you try newtumbl.com. Flickr is also good for overall views, although it's not really set up for re-blogging. The key to getting views there is to post your pics to appropriate groups - just make sure you set your account as restricted content otherwise you'll get banned in pretty...