Recent content by J91

It is completely your decision as to what parameters you set when looking for a play partner. You do not need to justify these to someone else, just be wary that there are a lot of predators lurking around these sites and are ready to pounce at a moments notice. Take time to really formulate...

Interesting revival @nina , I have had a look at my list from 2019 and actually I would say that my list is largely the same, maybe just with room for some more pain and bondage related implements. I'm surprised that 4 years on my kinks are mostly unchanged.

@Thebrat I'm sorry you had that experience. Unfortunately any Dom/me who tries to blame you after safe wording is not looking out for your best interests and is not someone you can trust going forward. I do feel like 40 minutes is a long time without a check in to see how the pain is going...

I do think people need a degree of common sense that is unfortunately scarce on sites like these. You do a brilliant job of staffing these forums, but there is only so much a team of volunteers can do.

Stumbled across this again! Temperature play?

@submissivegal87 you are so very fortunate to be with someone who does support you this way and it most definitely is refreshing to hear. After all, a D/s dynamic is still a relationship that needs to withstand the ups and downs of daily life and normality beyond kink. I completely agree about...

Great post @submissivegal87, I think where I have struggled in relationships previously is because my partners and/or play partners haven't fully understood that being submissive is not just limited to sexual play, but actual is a very prominent characteristic of my personality which manifests...

Okay so I think we've established that the X in second position is the bull, it seemz like A and C are correct but their positions havent been verified yet. F, I, J, K, L are current posibilities. LXMNFIAC

I like this idea. EXYZABCG

I do like it here. It feels much more friendlier, open and less judgemental somehow. Yes, there are a few idiots who ruin it every now and again, but they are everywhere and it just takes a bit of strategic ignoring. I find the discussions in depth and often thought provoking, especially for me...

Girls just wanna have fun?

Hi there, I used to play exactly the same games with a cousin when I was younger and was completely addicted to porn when I first discovered it. I only came to the realisation that my love of the slave game was connected to my kinks a few years ago, and although it was a difficult thing to...

I don't think there is any one correct answer to this question. I think it is partially due to the differences between males and females and partly the fact that it is a kink site. The kink elements for some reason gives the impression that any submissive female is willing to submit to any...

Extremely well thought out puzzle @nina, thank you for sharing your process. Could the last one be TWICE? as a clitoris has twice the amount of nerve endings as its male counterpart.

Hmm...very difficult! 2. I have searched the controversy surroundings Cardi Bs dress and found that it has been likened to a carpet, train or red blood cells so possibly CELLS or even BLOOD? 4. Something that they had in common...possibly DESIRE? 6. Something to do with the peak or point...