Recent content by King-in-Carcosa

Thank you all for the input! @RedSector We know our love languages, and ironically enough, they're the two most opposing to each other. She is an acts of service (yet is a submissive... hmm) and I'm a words of affirmation yet am constantly talked down to. It's a vicious cycle.

So we try to do those things with each other, but it feels more like the patience and understanding only comes from me. Her behavior contradicts her desires. She wants me to "own" and "control" her again but she is literally verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive to me. It's like she has...

Hoping some folks in here have some good advice. I'll provide the high-level story and then fill in the details and highlight them as needed. My wife and I have been married for 15 years and at the beginning of our relationship, the power dynamic was great. She would willingly give control and...