Mistresslilian

One can never take power over a person/people with lies and coercion and expect anything but resentment and eventually mutiny. However, if a person offers obedience to one's leadership because they desire to, then expect happiness for everyone.

My needs are to be the leader of my submissive throughout all aspects of sexual life, to provide the full range of pleasures for myself from his body, having been given to me to care for, and also to not micro-manage, or be oppressive in his everyday life, but still to take away his stress by dealing with those things in life to give him freedom to be 100% attentive to my Dominance.

This Dominant embraces Female le superiority, imposing strict rules, embracing femininity, the duty to serve, and the understanding that he, like all males, must be disciplined, controlled, and punished for his own good. Embracing this lifestyle involves many things, such as being neat, clean and fresh, smooth in the right places, not at all loud or vulgar, but keenly aware of her lowly and humiliating position.