Recent content by Saraahh32

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    Moving forward in a relationship after bad anal experience

    He is aware and we spoke about it pretty early on. I like to be pretty up front about it if I’m going to be entering a sexual relationship with someone. I probably just need to be a little more specific about how these things affect me etc.
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    Moving forward in a relationship after bad anal experience

    I didn’t enjoy it but it wasn’t the actual act I didn’t enjoy, I think I struggled to enjoy it because of the circumstances if that makes sense? I’m the type of person that likes to feel prepared, not only physically but also in my mind, for something. I was able to to do that so I was in my own...
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    Moving forward in a relationship after bad anal experience

    Thank you for your reply. I started in the past 24 hours, to consider that my reaction may have been less to do with embarrassment and more to do with my past because I have a history of SA and r*pe. Part of the reason I like bdsm (along with the fact that I find pain pleasurable) is because...
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    Moving forward in a relationship after bad anal experience

    I wasn’t sure where to post this because I’m in dom/sub relationship but my question is more of a general sex question than a kink one, so I hope it’s okay here. So I've (32F) have been dating this guy (30M) for several months now. We've been friends for a while because we used to work...