Shy&Submissive

Hi, I'm a single 36 year old professional looking to further explore my sexuality after becoming stuck in a very vanilla, very frustrating relationship.

I'm looking to find a dom (male or female) who I can connect with sexually. I need someone who wants and enjoys taking complete control. I want to find my limits.

I am a complete newbie and I gather some doms aren't keen on a first time sub, but giving up control has always been a turn on

Open to exploration; need to find what works for me. Not willing to try any poo/pee/blood related activities.