Sorry to say, but as much as i enjoy having booth if them so active and Kinktalk members can be winners to follow them, Kinktalk users are also "loosers" as it seems @Asianfucktoy left our community...
It always also depends on the circumstences of live. Some are so busy with other topics that a year seems like nothing for them especially if they always feel used and are not bored. While others already feel the urge directly after 2 days in denial
As you seem to be new here i would also recommemd to just have a look on several posts here from females looking for tasks and thrir reports. By that you also will notice what kind of things you enjoy and what not.
But as above mentioned there are so many ways of beeing a submssive, there is not...
So you say that "hello" "get naked" "stuff your pussy with your toy" and "send me a pic" is not enough for communication? ;-) ;-D
Jokes aside... yes i totally agree as the submissive part must be also felt secure and understood on the one hand, but also needs to understand the dominants tasks...
Great to see you conituing your training. To become a hucow you have to not only train your udders but also your mind. So whenever you eat, knee down on all fours and try to eat in the floor without using your hands, as cows also can not use them