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    I'm new here and need advice

    They were real. I am open to exploring this lifestyle with him and to figure out what I am comfortable with. Sometimes I like to be dominant but I can be very insecure about my skills, crazy I know coming from a grown woman, but more often than not I enjoy the more submissive role. I have been...
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    I'm new here and need advice

    I was not aware of the affairs but I did have my suspicions. While I am very hurt by this latest affair with his sub as it has been going on for 3 years, I still believe in our marriage and I still believe we can rekindle the passion we once had for one another. While I realize he has been...
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    I'm new here and need advice

    Thank you for the advice. While I realize he has been cheating, I am not so obtuse as to not recognize my faults and shortcomings as a wife both emotionally and in the bedroom. We are working on strengthening our bond both as a couple and in our sex life, he never thought I would be interested...
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    I'm new here and need advice

    My husband recently told me he has been in several D/s relationships over the last several years in which he is the Dom. I am curious if there are any other spouses out there who are Vanilla and accept that their sig other enjoys this alternate lifestyle? Any advice on making this work in our...