I'm curious I like the idea of role play in being a sub but also would like to do things, one of the most interesting scenes I have seen in porn is a man or woman being tied up, masturbated, and when they climax the person doing the masturbation continues, this is apparently known as post orgasmic torture, these can be found by searching the term "femdom handjob pot" for the male clips. Though I would like to see this in real life, is this possible? Anyay on the relationship side of things, do couples who are into the lifestyle keep this to themselves when around others? I mean like would a woman make it clear she is the one wearing the pants around the house?