Crossdressing/Petticoating

lestat221 · Mar 15, 2008

This is quite the subject for me, I'm an active crossdresser. It should be important to note that "crossdressing" does NOT mean gay, you know? If you have any doubts about that, I suggest you watch "Ed Wood." He was a director, and an avid crossdresser.

Anyways, I hope to hear everyone's views on both crossdressing and/or petticoating.

SubMissChievous · Mar 15, 2008

I find what you mentioned very interesting. In the getDare Truth section I have started a thread about x-dressing if you want to check it out

And yes, I think a section, or at least sub-forum, about x-dressing would attract a lot of members.

tempered_sugar · May 6, 2008

I love the film Ed Wood except Johnny Depp makes one ugly woman!

lizard · May 6, 2008

lestat221 said:
...important to note that "crossdressing" does NOT mean gay....

Absolutely!!
Im straight, happily married, and prefer clothing intended for the opposite sex.

Maybe a question that might start a good discussion is this:
In your opnion, does cross dressing mean a person trying to pass themselves off as the opposite sex, or simply wearing clothing intended for the opposite sex?

I personally love to wear skirts, panties, and other lacy/frilly underthings, but I never make a pretense of being the opposite sex, just someone who wishes that society would accept an expanded wardrobe for the male population. Im curious about other's thoughts on this.

K to the J · May 8, 2008

I'm not a cross-dresser but I have experimented with my girlfriend's clothes.

I have wore her thongs before and her short shorts...she looks so much better than I do though, obviously..

I don't know how she does it, she's so hot.

Meander · May 9, 2008

Watching a man cross-dress can be a big turn on. I particularly like to watch a man put on satin, silk, or velvet panties which I can then stroke. I also like to see men put on make up.

I've helped a few friends dress for drag performances. They were all business about it but it got me so hot. I've never personally known a heterosexual cross-dresser but I've convinced a few boyfriends to wear my panties.

I think it would be cool if there were more lacy, frilly, sexy, satiny, silky men's clothes.

Swisstony · May 10, 2008

I am straight and do like to cross dress. DO many over girls find it a turn on?

Dementyia · May 15, 2008

The strength and security in one's masculinity and sexual identity it takes for a straight man in this day and age to dress in women's clothes is truly arousing, if I do say so myself.

Ever since I first started dating, I have never stayed with a man who balked at wearing my clothes. Only a real man can stand the dichotomy between what they have been conditioned with from birth and how lovely they look and feel in something silken and frilly.

I have a friend who regularly comes out to the club in heels, hose, and a short skirt. He looks really hot, even though he's not my type at all otherwise, so that says something about how sexy a man is, when dressed in clothes made for a woman.

Meander · May 19, 2008

So many of the "rules" about what is masculine and what is feminine are just social constructs. There's no logical basis for silk, lace, velvet, dresses, or the color pink to be exclusively female. I love it when a man can just wear what he pleases. I admit the little thrill of "naughtiness" when my lover wears my clothes is a real turn on.

aika · May 20, 2008

lizard said:
I personally love to wear skirts, panties, and other lacy/frilly underthings, but I never make a pretense of being the opposite sex, just someone who wishes that society would accept an expanded wardrobe for the male population. Im curious about other's thoughts on this.

I totally agree with you, although if wearing such garments was socially accepted it would probably take away a bit of the kick

Dementyia, I find your approach of not staying with a man who would not crossdress quite incredible. That's a lot to ask a man who has never tried it on his own first.

zeketheorc · May 24, 2008

In terms of crossdressing, I prefer to wear womens underwear. I have worn thongs, boyshorts, bikini, etc. In public I have worn mainly womens jeans in public, but I did walk through a park in a miniskirt outfit. It was later at night and no one ended up seeing me that I know of.

lestat221 · May 25, 2008

I'd imagine that if society became more relaxed in gender related clothing wearing issues, then we would see a slow build in men wearing "womens" clothing. But, you wouldn't take note of it because it wouldn't be strictly "women's" clothing anymore. It'd be like if vanilla were the only acceptable flavor for ice cream, and only losers and bohemians ate chocolate. Once the "normal" people accepted chocolate into their lives, you wouldn't necessarily be able to tell who was "normal" and who wasn't, because we were all the same. And we can all eat vanilla AND chocolate ice cream in harmony. Unless you want neopoliton. Of course, whenever I eat that I eat around the strawberry cuz I hate strawberrie ice cream, which is why I like going to chinese food restaurants to peruse THEIR ice cream machines. But it's hard to find a chinese restaurant with good seisame seed chicken, which is the "make it or break it" food item for me...

...What was I talking about?

http://blogs.allocine.fr/blogsdatas...173337313922598/img/ed_wood_sur_la_chaise.jpg

aika · May 26, 2008

I can't see that happening though

green · Jun 1, 2008

I enjoy dressing for women say over cam or one on one. Some girls do really like it

rumen · Jun 12, 2008

Crossdressing could be fun, especially when I dress in women's underwear

It's a real turn on.

odineu · Jun 28, 2008

I want to do it pretty bad, but I keep myself back because I am... umm.. very masculine?

kinkyone101 · Jun 29, 2008

i am a male and get a real turn on from the idea of having roles reversed. I think that crossdressing in total womens clothing including makeup and underwear would be a complete turn on. I would then want my partner to be dressed in male clothes with a strap on. I want want her to take advantage of me and do me in the ass. I think that would be good. =)

Night-1990 · Jul 3, 2008

Crossdressing? heh, i've indulged in my fair share, most likely when parents are out for 12 hours i stay home and crossdress, weird i know, but hey, what ever turns you on

Tabby · Jul 7, 2008

Personally I don't find the idea of myself crossdressing that terribly appealing. However, a cute crossdressing guys are a big turn-on for me. Especially if they can pull off a feminine look pretty well.

NYdude · Jul 14, 2008

Hmm its a shame i dont have anything to do it in ide certinly try it, atleast with underwear. Anyone know how to get some private panties/thongs without anyone knowing?

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