Me and a friend had an argument this morning, she believes that there is no such thing as love in a D/S or BDSM relationship.
I'd put the discussion here but it may offend some people with what my friend said.
Though these are her words that theres never any love in the lifestyle we enjoy, when we have kids in a lifestyle that involves BDSM or D/S that kid would grow up messed up and that a D/S relationship is about abuse and control.
My personal opinion is that there can be love in a D/S relationship, I know a 100% from having past slaves that there is. I got two ex slaves that would do anything to still be with me, they even admit they love me and would move from America just to be with me. Now as for the kids part, I haven't got kids myself but I feel if the parent does a good job raising their kids. That their kids could be understanding and non judgemental on these things. One major thing though to me is though that BDSM ain't about control or abuse, I personally believe its about trust.
The reason I'm making this thread is to ask whats everyones personal opinion on this?
I'd put the discussion here but it may offend some people with what my friend said.
Though these are her words that theres never any love in the lifestyle we enjoy, when we have kids in a lifestyle that involves BDSM or D/S that kid would grow up messed up and that a D/S relationship is about abuse and control.
My personal opinion is that there can be love in a D/S relationship, I know a 100% from having past slaves that there is. I got two ex slaves that would do anything to still be with me, they even admit they love me and would move from America just to be with me. Now as for the kids part, I haven't got kids myself but I feel if the parent does a good job raising their kids. That their kids could be understanding and non judgemental on these things. One major thing though to me is though that BDSM ain't about control or abuse, I personally believe its about trust.
The reason I'm making this thread is to ask whats everyones personal opinion on this?