I'm not the only one bothered by how nuts some of the guys on here are, am I?
Like, every personal add is like "KIK ME AND CALL ME MASTER IMMEDIATELY AND SUBMIT COMPLETEY RIGHT THE FUCK NOW!"
Like, dude. No. Get to know someone a bit first. You're coming off as thirsty and dangerously aggressive. Why would someone want to submit to someone so selfish and power hungry? RED FLAG.
"Master" is an earned title, for both parties. She doesn't *earn* the right to call you master until she is trained enough to truly submit and you don't *deserve* the title until you have proven yourself capable of training and caring for a sub/slave.
Dudes here have NO chill!
Lol
And is it just me or is the term "slave" also used around here rather loosely? Like, "I'm a slave, but here are all my conditions and limits."
No. You're a sub.
Like... I kinda get it. When my Master and I started, we had limits and conditions, etc... But I also didn't call him "master" and he didn't call me his slave.
Until I knew I was able to trust him with my mind and body, and fully submitted, that is. Then he called me his slave, I called him my Master, and now I have no limits with him.
I feel like people are skipping important steps in relationship building here, I guess...
I'm not alone on this observation, am I? Lol
Rant over.
Like, every personal add is like "KIK ME AND CALL ME MASTER IMMEDIATELY AND SUBMIT COMPLETEY RIGHT THE FUCK NOW!"
Like, dude. No. Get to know someone a bit first. You're coming off as thirsty and dangerously aggressive. Why would someone want to submit to someone so selfish and power hungry? RED FLAG.
"Master" is an earned title, for both parties. She doesn't *earn* the right to call you master until she is trained enough to truly submit and you don't *deserve* the title until you have proven yourself capable of training and caring for a sub/slave.
Dudes here have NO chill!
Lol
And is it just me or is the term "slave" also used around here rather loosely? Like, "I'm a slave, but here are all my conditions and limits."
No. You're a sub.
Like... I kinda get it. When my Master and I started, we had limits and conditions, etc... But I also didn't call him "master" and he didn't call me his slave.
Until I knew I was able to trust him with my mind and body, and fully submitted, that is. Then he called me his slave, I called him my Master, and now I have no limits with him.
I feel like people are skipping important steps in relationship building here, I guess...
I'm not alone on this observation, am I? Lol
Rant over.