Hi I'm new here I've been on fetlife before that's where I met my fiance.
We love eachother implicitly and are very open.
I need a fair bit of advice as I have no one else to talk to about it.
My partner wants to be dominated by another guy or girl, and not me. I am not against this but ait does put things in your head. What if she gets used to this other, prefers them to me. Gets out off sex with me (which has started to dwindle the past few months). Am I a failure to her that I can't give her what she wants and needs therefore making me useless as a sexual partner?
The other thing is she wants to be used and have a gang bang? With me involved but again I'm ok with the idea but I'm stuck as I'm shit in public plus ill hang up in the fact that she may get better sex from the other guys or only want to fuck with them there or in a gang bang. Sounds selfish I know sorry but these things crop up. I allready think she's way out of my league sexually and has a very high appetite for sex but past few montha not with me.
Now she is no way to blame, we both are often knackere and don't ger much us time, I'm shit at telling the signs to fuck her and she doesn't ever choose to with me first.
I'm just being stupid but please any advice be awesome
Thanks guys n girls
We love eachother implicitly and are very open.
I need a fair bit of advice as I have no one else to talk to about it.
My partner wants to be dominated by another guy or girl, and not me. I am not against this but ait does put things in your head. What if she gets used to this other, prefers them to me. Gets out off sex with me (which has started to dwindle the past few months). Am I a failure to her that I can't give her what she wants and needs therefore making me useless as a sexual partner?
The other thing is she wants to be used and have a gang bang? With me involved but again I'm ok with the idea but I'm stuck as I'm shit in public plus ill hang up in the fact that she may get better sex from the other guys or only want to fuck with them there or in a gang bang. Sounds selfish I know sorry but these things crop up. I allready think she's way out of my league sexually and has a very high appetite for sex but past few montha not with me.
Now she is no way to blame, we both are often knackere and don't ger much us time, I'm shit at telling the signs to fuck her and she doesn't ever choose to with me first.
I'm just being stupid but please any advice be awesome
Thanks guys n girls