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Old 07-07-2018, 01:20 AM
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Question My boyfriend doesn't know!

Me and my bf have been in an open relationship for 2 and a half years.. he knows all my kinks etc, (except exposure) but he doesn't know that I'm exposed all over the internet... should I tell him or just let date decide?

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Old 07-07-2018, 02:25 PM
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If you plan on staying with him, open relationship or otherwise, I suggest you tell him. I kept my exposure from my long-time girlfriend for about 10 years and one day I screwed up and sent her a Reddit link from my "naughty" account and from there she discovered my online exhibitionism. She had always known that I was an exhibitionist and was accepting of it, but did not know that I'd been posting my nude and sexually explicit pics and videos all over the place. She was very upset that I had kept that aspect of my life hidden from her and felt like it was a betrayal of her trust. We've worked things out and have a set of ground rules for me to follow with my exposure. While she was upset initially that I was exposing myself like that, she was more upset because she felt like I was lying to her all those years, and even now she seems a bit insecure at times that I'm hiding other things from her. Based on my experience, it's probably best to tell your boyfriend about your exposure. He might not understand, but better to get it out in the open and not have to conceal it from him.
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Old 07-07-2018, 02:43 PM
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I don't tell my wife. If I would tell her she will simply say "don't!".

If you feel dare to tell, knowing this would not affect your relationship, then just do it!
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Old 07-09-2018, 12:46 PM
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It sounds as if you have a really cool boyfriend but, it's best to keep it honest! You look like a cute guy and if you were my boyfriend I not only would be "cool" about it... I would even help you out with your kink. If I had to find out the "hard way" then I would take it as you were being dishonest with me. If you're pics are online then... It's just a matter of time before he finds out. All it takes is one Facebook, Twitter, Reddit link and you're fucked!
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