32 years old italian male Dom looking for an online only female sub/slave 18-40

dariodragon7

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  • Straight
  • Male
  • Dominant
Jul 13, 2015
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Hello everyone! My name is Dario and I am a 32 years old Dom from Palermo, Italy. I'm 1,77m tall, and weight about 60kg. I have black straight hairs and deep greenish eyes. My sexual orientation is straight with an interest in straight couples.

In my vanilla life, I'm a geek, I love playing videogames, watching anime and reading mangas. I love swimming and going to the beach. I'm an almost graduated university student and I study history and italian literature to work as a teacher. I love animals and especially I'm a cat lover (which I have four). I'm friendly and I really enjoy talking about everything. If you want to know more about my private life feel free to ask.

I've been into this lifestyle for over six years now and I'm still finding out new things about this world, about my kinks, my likes and my limits. I had several online only experiences and one in person. For now I plan to keep things online only for several reasons, but this might change if things go really well.

I identify myself as a Dominant and my main focus is towards the sexual side. Other main interests involve in particular pictures and videos, clothes control, daily routine control, behavior control and orgasm control. I will make a pretty detailed list with my main kinks, but I'm willing to try new fetishes and kinks even based on your interests, I'm very open so feel free to suggest anything right away if you wish to try. Anyway I'll update my profile with the fetish list.

To me it doesen't matter if you're new or experienced as I'm willing to accept anyone. I've trained both newbies and experienced sub/slaves , and I think everyone should always learn something from every experience. Anyway I don't apply a fixed behavior but I try to adapt to each person and situation differently. I don't consider myself as "extremely" experienced but I'm not a newbie as well.

I'm not a standard BDSMer. I'm not good at doing the ropes (I prefer scarf simple bondage), I'm not a control freak as I leave some degree of freedom to my slaves. I prefer giving tasks like writing essays or diaries and I prefer focusing more on the sexual behavior. Know that while texting me so you don't complain for what you get afterwards.

Now there are a couple things that I'm looking for into a slave/submissive.

First: I'm not interested in body looks and races, so it doesen't matter if you are black or white, thin or plump, tall or small (even though I admit I prefer smaller girls because I have a particular fetish for being kissed while the girl stands on her toes). Character wise this is not really important, I enjoy knowing different peoples, but I like a person who is funny, open minded, really kinky, loving, caring and who likes to talk doesen't matter which topic. Your age is an important matter instead. I will not accept anyone who is younger than 18 or older than 40 but if we are really a good match I might push it to 45 but not further. Also I'm only looking for girls since I'm completely straight. Anyway I'm interested in couples as well as long as both members are submissive to me(or at least the girl is).

Second: You should be provided with a camera and/or possibly a webcam (the webcam is a plus not really necessary even though I enjoy it). I love collecting pictures and videos, it's my main fetish and I'm aware that taking pictures and videos is a limit for many, but if you're interested in me it shouldn't be a limit for you. I'm not expecting you to send pictures/videos right away the first days if you don't feel ready or comfortable, but I want it to happen sooner or later. I have a camera and a webcam and am ready to show myself and I expect the same thing. Showing face is not necessary, you can avoid showing your face in pictures and videos in the beginning or if it's a limit even at all. This is a not negotiable point.

Third: I believe that trust between Dom and sub is crucial into these kind of relationships, so you should trust me and I will trust you. As I've said before i expect pictures, videos and possibly webcam to happen, which means that you will have to trust that I will never share online any pictures or videos of you and that they will be for me only to keep for my personal pleasure. I realize that trust can't be obtained over a day or two, so I'm fine with taking our time before engaging in any intimate activity and give some space into knowing each other better and see if trust can be achieved or if it's better to quit. This is a really crucial thing for me to obtain and it's not negotiable as well.

Fourth: You must to be open to try new things and kinks, as I'm really open to try new things as well. I'm not planning to push or force your limits unless you are fine with it, but I believe that trying and experimenting new things keeps things spicy and interesting and won't make the routine fall into boredom.

Fifth: I expect to have some kind of control. It doesen't have to be hard or total control, but there are a couple of things which I will want control over, in particular orgasms, clothes etc. We can discuss over this matter and agree to what degree of control and which things I will control, but I just want to be clear that I expect some kind of control over some of these aspects.

I will set some rules, but I don't have a set amount of rules and I prefer to adapt them to every single person. These rules will not interfere with important aspects of your life like work, family and friends or school, and we can discuss them and scrap those you think will be an obstacle. Breaking a rule a few times will result first in a scolding and if this keeps happening in a punishment.

I'm pretty strict when it comes to tasks completion. I will give you some daily tasks and a deadline to complete them. Breaking the deadline or not completing the task well will always lead to a punishment. Of course I'll give you tasks and deadlines accordingly to your life duties.

I will not disclose any details about the way I use punishments and how I punish. I apply either physical, mental, humiliating and denial punishments. If some kind of punishment is on your limit list we can discuss it and I'll come up with something different. Being online I can't give the punishment myself so you'll have to do the punishment under my watch, but this doesen't mean you can say no or refuse to give yourself a punishment (unless there's a valid reason to it and you explain it to me). If I notice this behavior I might interrupt the relationship right away.

I am monogamous and I'm not looking for a poly relationship, and I expect the same from you. I would love to find a partner for a long term relationship at distance with possible meetings and why not a future chance for relocating if things go really well. I'm not hoping for a life long relationships, but at least I expect it last long enough, like months or years since i will be investing my time on it. Short time plays are welcome as well as play partners but this has to be decided before starting.

I don't like people disappearing. I understand that we're all busy and life is filled with duties, so it's ok if you have to be gone for hours or days, just let me know in advance, after all a warning text to a person takes only a minute and it's a good manner, we surely don't live with the phone in hands but the other person might be waiting for a reply from you so it's nice to warn if you're going to be really busy and unable to talk/serve. Same thing goes if either you or me are not interested in the relationship anymore. I prefer to be at least informed if this is the case so that we can both start looking again. So this is like a warning: if you disappear without telling me and then come back after days or week, consider the relationship to be over. I'm honest and I expect the same in return.

I'm looking for a slave/submissive girl. Not a switch or a bottom. If you do have a dominant side, you have to push it aside while spending time with me (not pushing it away forever, you can be dominant in your daily life as much as you want). Any dominant behavior during sessions will be punished. We can talk, communicate, even be friends as equals if you wish while we're not on a session, but I'm the Dom you are the sub, I don't like labels but I want respect for the roles. I will respect you as a person and I will respect your limits, but you will respect my role and my position and i will get the last word.

An important issue for everyone outside Europe is that my time zone is GMT +1 so you should be aware that we might have some time difference. It's not a problem for me and I've already dealt with it for years with several subs so I will try to adapt to your time zone as much as I can, so I expect you to put some efforts on it as well.

Some of my main fetishes are:

- Costume play and cosplay
- Sexy poses
- Teasing
- Pictures and videos collection
- Webcam live sessions
- Sexual play
- Orgasm control/denial
- Clothes control
- Tits and nipples torture
- Daily routine control
- Feets torture
- Clit torture
- Ass and Pussy spanking
- Clothespins
- Porn watching control
- Edge play
- Ice cubes
- Forced masturbation
- Forced nudity
- Mouth gag
- Blindfold
- Scarf bondage
- Body writings
- Writings
- Floor licking
- Kneeling

For the rest of them ask in private

My limits are:

- Blood
- Scat
- Vomit
- Family & friends
- Illegal
- Breath play
- Diapers
- Period play
- Watersport
- Messy
- Knife play

I'm totally serious on this and this profile is not for playing or getting laid. I'm here for something serious, genuine and hopefully long enough. I might not be the best and most experienced or conventional Dom over this site or in the world, my tastes might not be for everyone, but I am REAL and HONEST and the proof is the time I take into writing the messages I send and the ads I post.

To communicate in the beginning we can use the private messages here but soon enough I will want to move to a more private way to chat. I mostly use Kik, Whatsapp and Skype, but feel free to suggest some other way and I'll see if it's fine to use. My Kik is masterdario7 but I'll give you my other contacts only in private.

Well I guess that's all I can and feel to write about me. If you want to know more contact me in private I'll reply to everyone. Thanks for taking your time to make it this far on reading my profile and I hope it wasn't too long or boring.

Have a nice day!
 

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