Dating advice

Naturist

Kinky Newbie
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  • Submissive
Oct 23, 2016
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Midlands area
I'm curious I like the idea of role play in being a sub but also would like to do things, one of the most interesting scenes I have seen in porn is a man or woman being tied up, masturbated, and when they climax the person doing the masturbation continues, this is apparently known as post orgasmic torture, these can be found by searching the term "femdom handjob pot" for the male clips. Though I would like to see this in real life, is this possible? Anyay on the relationship side of things, do couples who are into the lifestyle keep this to themselves when around others? I mean like would a woman make it clear she is the one wearing the pants around the house?
 

AuthorCrow

Kink Talk Member
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  • Dominant
Nov 4, 2016
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There are two types of couples:
1.) Some couple are open minded and let everyone know that asks about it, and to be entirely honest.. submission from the partner is seen a lot by the way the person speaks to their partner who happens to also be their Master/Mistress.
2.) But there are also couples that do no advertise themselves in such a way and keep their kinky side to just the two of them, you usually will not be able to figure it out on your own either and will deny it even if you were to ask about it.

If you're looking for post orgasmic torture, you can always ask your girlfriend/wife to continue masturbating you even after you've achieved orgasm. Suggesting a bit of a kinky play in the bedroom does no harm to the relationship but only lets your partner see you as you really are and maybe your partner will actually enjoy it.
 

Naturist

Kinky Newbie
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Submissive
Oct 23, 2016
13
0
1
Midlands area
There are two types of couples:
1.) Some couple are open minded and let everyone know that asks about it, and to be entirely honest.. submission from the partner is seen a lot by the way the person speaks to their partner who happens to also be their Master/Mistress.
2.) But there are also couples that do no advertise themselves in such a way and keep their kinky side to just the two of them, you usually will not be able to figure it out on your own either and will deny it even if you were to ask about it.

If you're looking for post orgasmic torture, you can always ask your girlfriend/wife to continue masturbating you even after you've achieved orgasm. Suggesting a bit of a kinky play in the bedroom does no harm to the relationship but only lets your partner see you as you really are and maybe your partner will actually enjoy it.

Thanks for your response, though I am single at the moment.
 

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