So here's something that's going to sound really silly, but...
I've been a dominant for about 7 years now, with strong switching tendencies that never lead anywhere. This is mostly due to the few times I did sub that turned out so bad that I really don't trust anyone any more. However, recently my overly submissive boyfriend has been wanting to dominate me, except somehow it always turns around on him. The worst part is that I trust him enough to let him, but he just doesn't seem strong enough to dom me.
I've given him everything I know about how to make me more submissive, but I'm afraid that isn't enough. It seems that every time he tries, we hit some area that he has no experience in (almost everything-- might as well be a virgin), and I have experience in, so I end up turning it on him. Does anyone have any advice for how to turn off my natural tendency to dom, so I can sub for him?
Thanks,
-M
I've been a dominant for about 7 years now, with strong switching tendencies that never lead anywhere. This is mostly due to the few times I did sub that turned out so bad that I really don't trust anyone any more. However, recently my overly submissive boyfriend has been wanting to dominate me, except somehow it always turns around on him. The worst part is that I trust him enough to let him, but he just doesn't seem strong enough to dom me.
I've given him everything I know about how to make me more submissive, but I'm afraid that isn't enough. It seems that every time he tries, we hit some area that he has no experience in (almost everything-- might as well be a virgin), and I have experience in, so I end up turning it on him. Does anyone have any advice for how to turn off my natural tendency to dom, so I can sub for him?
Thanks,
-M