Hello. So I’m asking for guidance because I’ve been in 1 BDSM type of relationship but my dom never really finished training me per say and he moved to Maryland. I’ve dabbled in the lifestyle every so often but it’s been hard finding a truly dominant partner.
On the flip side of things I now have a very dominant boyfriend who wants to really be my dom now that he knows I’ve dabbled in the lifestyle before. I’m a bit hesitant at times and I tell him no. He claims he wants to break me and reteach me his way. I can be very submissive when I want to and I’m very playful. However, he wants full submission.
I guess my question is how do I do this. I understand that communication is key and trust has to be there. I just don’t know how to give him what he wants. I’m so used to being in charge at work and in normal life and the bedroom is the only place I ever submit. What can I do to help me give him what he wants?
On the flip side of things I now have a very dominant boyfriend who wants to really be my dom now that he knows I’ve dabbled in the lifestyle before. I’m a bit hesitant at times and I tell him no. He claims he wants to break me and reteach me his way. I can be very submissive when I want to and I’m very playful. However, he wants full submission.
I guess my question is how do I do this. I understand that communication is key and trust has to be there. I just don’t know how to give him what he wants. I’m so used to being in charge at work and in normal life and the bedroom is the only place I ever submit. What can I do to help me give him what he wants?