31M Dom looking for female sub, slave ( prefer nonsexual )

Sexuality
Straight
Gender
Male
Orientation
Dominant
Region
Asia & Eastern Europe
Age
31
Kinks
TPE, humiliation, degradation, body writing, giving pain, name calling, punishment, spanking, cloth controlling

VN_DOM246

Kinky Newbie
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Dominant
Apr 22, 2023
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4
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32
Hello potential subs,

I'm looking after submissive / slave girl who wants to lose control of her life and needs a firm hand to guide her. If you come at my side I will give you my attention and help you grow as a sub.

As a Dom I want to take care of you, guide you in your submission. I want to be your reference. You may have your problems, be stressed, depressed, bored or may just be a brat who needs some discipline and/or attention. I want to handle all that for you, I want to manage everything so you can feel safe at my side. I want to create an space where you can share with me what's in your mind without worrying about being judged for that.
During play I can be mean, treat you with no mercy, verbally degrade you to the point you feel useless or I can treat you as a delicate flower. What I'm after is your reaction to a stimulus, I want to see your endurance and I can adapt to your likes in order to bring the best out of you. Of course certain degree of compatibility within our likes is needed.

I want a sub that actually submits to me and not just obey because that's what she is supposed to do. I want to build a relationship where you feel comfortable enough to show your true self. I want you to not play with me but actually feel attached to me. I want to feel that you are actually there for me. A relationship like this is not build in one day, moreover each person is different and so is each relationship, therefore I don't mind being patient and give you as much time as you need to trust and feel comfortable with me. I don't need you to decide right away, we might talk, do some trials and everything you need to approach this without fear.

I don’t pretend you like everything, you may have your own list of likes, dislikes and limits which will be respected. Just as a reminder likes and dislikes are things you enjoy or not but that you will do if you are asked to, on the other hand limits are things you will never do and therefore you will not be asked to do. If you don’t know which are your likes and limits yet I will help you list them.
 
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