Im New - Help

Devildriver

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Ive just got together with a girl who is into her bondage. I have some experience but not alot. Im into trying out more things but were going away for the weekend and im looking for some advice. Ive done tying up, blindfolds etc but not so much of the dirty talk. She wants to be treated like a whore, i can do that but need some advice on speaking to her like a whore and any other general pointers.

Help please!

Thanks
 

Masterdaddy13

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First when it's your playtime don't ask her or suggest to her, tell her! Take what you want and if she questions you simply tell her you didn't ask for or need her permission! Bondage can be fun but you don't have to get elaborate. Just binding her legs above and below her knees, face down looking away tell her how nasty she is have fun!! But remember when it's over it's over!
 

JulieKEames

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Don't be afraid to call her names during a session, like a fucktoy or a filthy slut, but remember that, like Masterdaddy said, once the session is over, so is the name calling (usually)!

Definitely TELL her what do to or what you intend to do to her, especially after she is tied up and helpless. The point is that a whore is there for your enjoyment, not her's. Tell her that.

Enjoy, have fun, as long as it is consensual.
 

StoicCrysies

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Enjoy, have fun, as long as it is consensual.

This above all else. Set a safeword, check on her limits and do everything up to that point. If she said directly "treat me like a whore" then she wants you to treat her with little to no regard to her emotionally or intellectually. Treat her like a sexdoll. Do the things you want to do to girls but are afraid to ask. Call her every name you've ever heard in a porn.

Then when it's all said and done, take care of her. For some s-types this can be a weird moment after the sub-drop. Of course, all this depends on you, your partner, the weather, light conditions and about a million other variables we don't know across the Internet.
 

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