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    How to stand a forbidden orgasm?

    If I’m understanding correctly, this is something you have set for yourself as you said you play alone. I’m confused about why you feel you can’t cum when your hubs is not traveling. You could slowly include him in the play and see how he feels. But I agree with some of the other comments...
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    When is kink not Kink but is “Damage Goods”

    I actually love this question. And stuff like this is interesting to me as well. Personally, it’s a combination of things. In my work (crisis clinician), I am in control and have a lot of responsibilities to my team and the clients we serve. So it’s nice to find a balance to that where I...
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    When is kink not Kink but is “Damage Goods”

    I know I’m new here, but this post poses a potential psychological question and as that is my field of work and study I thought I might be able to provide a helpful perspective. From what you have described, my understanding of the “escalator model” is a person becoming less satisfied with the...