Recent content by Instructor411

The word you're looking for is munch. Maybe there is something near you. Good luck!

If there was only a secret recipe to get over someone. Don't rush into a new power dynamic. I don't think bargaining to continue the relationship is a good idea. Except you both (or three) are into toxic relationships. It's easier said than done but second guessing the reasons is a waste of...

Unfortunately English is only my second language maybe someone is kind enough to explain this gibberish in the opening post. These incoherent words makes no sense to me. As if they were written carelessly in a random order. Either no kik and not serving the purpose of the entry or hiding it's...

What's wrong with the umbrella term "caretaking" you used yourself?

The way I understand your premise, you're looking for an other reason than arousal. I would say catharsis an emotional relief or maybe therapeutic to cope with past experiences. To find a safe and structured place. More on the level of behaviour and spiritual than "just" animalistic. Of course...

It's not a red flag but more emotional baggage you worry about. As I read it he didn't show any signs that should make you feel he isn't serious to be in a (kink) relationship. He asks if he can share some of his deepest fantasies or even experiences (w/o how accurate these story might be)...