Sorry to say, but as much as i enjoy having booth if them so active and Kinktalk members can be winners to follow them, Kinktalk users are also "loosers" as it seems @Asianfucktoy left our community...
It always also depends on the circumstences of live. Some are so busy with other topics that a year seems like nothing for them especially if they always feel used and are not bored. While others already feel the urge directly after 2 days in denial
As you seem to be new here i would also recommemd to just have a look on several posts here from females looking for tasks and thrir reports. By that you also will notice what kind of things you enjoy and what not.
But as above mentioned there are so many ways of beeing a submssive, there is not...