Recent content by Rleee

-- tldr at the end -- Hello! I'm Lee. I'm a 24 year old Switch who's actually been away from the entire bdsm scene for a while. The reason for this is, while I still enjoy being dominant here and there, I find I usually don't have much drive for it anymore, and it would take a real spark to...

Requests tribute.

Hello, all! Today I'd like to talk about this feeling that I have about myself. Sometimes I imagine myself in a different way than How I normally see me, and when this happens, I feel more comfortable than I ever do normally. The way I see me in those moments is not easyto put into words, but...

Hello and welcome! I think the most important advice I can give is to keep it safe and respect your, and the other's, limits (: Find out the things you like, if you haven't... When talking to someone before play, always make sure they want similar things as you... During play, keep it safe...

I still do disagree with requiring prior knowledge. A lot of people get interested in all of this by coming across here in the first place, and they want to learn that kind of information. Requiring them to know beforehand would make it much more difficult for everyone who's new to everything...

I do agree that making those more visible and readily available (that is, pinned to top page, and/or (preferrably and) getting an automatic private message with links to them upon registration) would be very useful to new Subs...

I specifically disagree. I think people who have never done this and are looking to for the first time should (and are meant to) be just as welcome here as anyone else. I do see the problem you're posing, but I think the only practical way of helping it, besides active moderation, is to spread...

I personally think new Subs have way too much trouble managing to step up and get here in the first place. There's no need to make it even more difficult for newcomers to get to what they need... As for reporting users, as people have kindly said above, there is already a way to do so...

I can only speak as per personal experience, but for me, this is how it goes. First, I think if you're to give orders to someone, you are at least somewhat responsible for safety involving that. So, as a Dom, I think it's important for me to make sure whatever I'm asking for is safe. Second, I...

23, Male. Can switch for casual play, but mostly Dom. Currently looking to play, open for female or feminine partners. Also searching for a serious, long term fem sub.

[ Who I am ] My name is Lee. I'm, again after a while, in search for a submissive. I'm 23 years old, and I began exploring my kinky side with other people at the age of 18. Although I am a Switch, I found that I'm only comfortable with being a Sub for short sessions, and where I feel most...

I think it depends on what you usually do, and the type of reward you intend (if small, big..) If you want to do a big thing, a nice, special session works... Allowing an orgasm if you usually don't is also a good one.. So many things can be rewards, pics, having the sub do things they like...

Hmm, that would be fine, but that, at least to me, seems to imply a bit of an ageplay dynamic... The thing is, here the emotional part isn't a necessary thing. I'm talking about when you get physically aroused by it when it happens, even though you might not need it at all for sexual attraction...

Hello! I'm looking today specifically for the name of a kink. I can best describe it as being turned on by demonstrations of protection and caretaking. I know it's pretty often a core element in ageplay, and also commonly present in petplay, but I also know it needs neither to exist... An...