sockless74

My Role:
I list myself as a switch because I enjoy being a Dom or Master, yet I also enjoy some amount of submission. Just because I enjoy submitting to a dominate female doesn't mean I am not a real Dom, or a lesser Dom in anyway. I would never expect a sub or slave to fill the Domme or Mistress role over me. I only give control over to those who willingly take it and enjoy it. I would never force someone to have any amount of control over me. That said I already have a wonderful Mistress who I am thankful to have in my life and I will not consider submitting to anyone else unless she decides to loan me to someone temporarily.

Vanilla Me:
I am very down to Earth, easy going and polite. I enjoy meeting new people from around the world, hearing about their lives, sharing photos and getting to know them. I am calm, reasonable and understanding. I enjoy chatting with people that I can joke around with and share my silly side. I willingly admit when I make a mistake, apologize, take steps to correct it if possible and ensure it doesn't happen again. I am very honest and open with the right people.

I enjoy the companionship of having a slave, sub or play partner. I enjoy having someone to talk with and share life with. I am able to be there for her when she needs someone to talk to and she is there for me. Some of my favorite times in my past relationships have simply been days where we just talked all day and nothing sexual (or at least not much sexual) took place.

One of my favorite things is exchanging photos. They don't have to be sexy, kinky nudes (although I welcome them too). I love seeing photos from different parts of the USA and around the world. Sure, I can see plenty of photos like that online, but I like seeing photos from my friend's life, where she has gone and what she did. This helps me to feel like I'm part of her life in a deeper way.

When I find a female slave, sub, Mistress, play partner or friend who is a good fit for me I am very loyal and dedicated to her. People and relationships are very important to me and I don't give them up easily. I always try to work on problems and see what adjustments can be made that benefit us both. However if it is clear that she is moving on and is pulling away from me for some reason I let her go even though it might be a painful experience for me.

Kinky Me:
There are many things that turn me on. It seems I discover new kinks all the time, however, I have my favorites that I tend to stick with no matter what. I will explain the fetishes that are most important to me here.

Confinement:
Confinement inside small enclosed spaces such as closets, trunks, chests, boxes, lockers, suitcases, etc. is one of my favorite fetishes. The smaller and more confining the space is, the more I enjoy it. I enjoy being inside of small spaces myself and I also enjoy seeing women inside of small spaces. I am not a huge fan of cages since you can see out of the cage. When I have an online slave/sub I always enjoy having them spend time inside of small spaces. I like the idea of putting my toys away when leaving. Making her wait in storage for my return. It doesn't matter if she is uncomfortable, tired, scared, hot, cold, bored, hungry, etc. She is my possession to do with as I please and if that means leaving her trapped in a closet for hours upon hours, then that is what will happen to her, simply because it brings me pleasure.
That said, I'm not a lunatic. I always play it safe when it comes to confinement or any type of bondage. People who are new to confinement aren't ready for hours of it. I always make sure to start with what is comfortable to them and build from there.
I enjoy making new friends, both male and female who enjoy confinement in small enclosed spaces. Either being in a small space themselves or putting others in small spaces. So please say hello to me if you also enjoy confinement.

Going commando:
I never wear underwear and I think that women going without underwear is something most men find sexy. Personally, I don’t like any type of underwear on women, bare is always better. Skirts and dresses without underwear is extremely sexy to me, but even more so I really enjoy jeans without panties because the rough fabric can feel really good if it rubs just right.

Going sockless:
Why else do you think I have the username that I do? I never wear socks myself and I enjoy when women wear their shoes without socks. A foot fetish isn’t uncommon, in fact it is the one of the most common fetishes. However, my particular type of foot fetish is quite specific. I enjoy shoes and boots without socks, nylons, stockings, tights or any other type of fabric covering. Just bare feet inside of shoes. I know, it is a bit unusual, but it is just how I am.

Forced orgasms, orgasm denial, orgasm control:
This fetish is rather new for me. The other three described above have been with me since I was a teenager. During my time as a Master to online slaves/subs I have really come to enjoy controlling their orgasms and masturbation activity. I have also tried it myself and found that I love giving up that control.

Dominant Me:
I love having control, almost any type of control. For me there is a deep satisfaction in having a female slave/sub give me certain parts of her life to oversee as I see fit. To force her into doing things that she would normally never do or may have never even thought of doing. To only allow her to masturbate and have orgasms when I allow her to. I enjoy making my slaves/subs feel helpless and desperate. I enjoy giving structure, rules, tasks and challenges to my slaves/subs.

My favorite types of control are orgasm control and some clothing control. I have done many other forms of control and always enjoyed them. I also enjoy inflicting pain, I am not hardcore sadist though, pain is more of a secondary interest for me.

Even though I love control, I am still very flexible. I control different slaves/subs in different ways. I realize that everyone is not the same and requires a different way to interact. Even though I enjoy inflicting pain I realize that not all slaves/subs enjoy it and those that do enjoy it don't all enjoy the same type of pain or severity of pain. I am flexible with what type of pain I use and how much pain I use.
My personal take on an M/s relationship is a little different than the typical view. Many people seem to view the slaves/subs as weak and inferior and the Dom as strong, arrogant and more important. When I am a Master to a slave/sub I see us as equal partners in a power exchange relationship. For the most part I am an average person. So basically, I say all of that to make the point that I'm not a stereotypical Dom. I'm a regular person that enjoys power exchange relationships.

Submissive Me:
I definitely lean more toward being a Dom/Master, but there is a side of me that enjoys giving up control too. I am quite specific about what I will give someone control over, but it is extremely exciting to do so. Toward the end of 2015 I experienced online orgasm control for the first time from a female friend and I loved the experience. I have since been fortunate to find a wonderful Mistress who enjoys controlling me online.

Nerdy Me:
I love Sci-fi shows and movies. My current favorite is Dr. Who. I also enjoy all of the Star Trek series, I'm currently working my way through the Voyager episodes. I also enjoy Firefly and I have many other shows on my list that I'd like to watch some day. I also enjoy fantasy type movies and books such as Lord or the Rings.

I used to play a lot of role-playing video games such as the Final Fantasy games, the Dragon Warrior games, Ultima Online and World of Warcraft. I also really love the Portal games. Right now Minecraft is currently my favorite.

Married Me:
Yes, I am married and it is to someone who isn't kinky in any way. And yes, I put this at the bottom of my long profile on purpose because I don't want to draw attention and criticism to myself from people who have problems with this fact.

Unfortunately my wife rejected the kinky side of me many years ago and in 2013 all intimacy came to an end entirely. This is partially due to things naturally slowing to a halt, but also health issues that my wife faced. I tried to push my kinky desires and sexual desires away, but that is like trying to stop enjoying coffee. I was an angry and bitter person when I tried to live that way. Once I gave into my desires and started seeking relationships outside of my marriage I became a much happier and nicer person. I know that many people will have issues with that, especially since this is currently a secret that I keep from my wife. I do hope to change that soon as I have been talking with her about an open marriage.

If you think I should divorce her, please go away and leave me alone. She doesn't deserve to be abandoned because of medical problems she didn't choose for herself. I'd be the scum of the Earth to leave in her time of need. Just because one part of our relationship doesn't work doesn't mean the rest doesn't work.

I'm not going to jump into bed with you right after we meet so don't bother offering and yes, there are woman who do offer and I turn them down. Sex is a minor issue for me, there is a lot more that I value as I have outlined on my profile.

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