This should be the same as any other thing that attracts/detracts from a potential partner. Some people will want it and not be a match. Some will be okay not doing it and that will be ok. Some don’t want it either and they match best. It’s not really different than any other thing you may want...
Just imagine how exciting it would have been to let loose a subtle moan when you thought no one was around and then turn to see your husband looking at you! :) That would have made for a fun moment.