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With the new format comes the first of many long awaited changes to be implemented. You can now become a verified member, staff can now check your proof and add the "Verified" status to your title that appears under your user name.
Open to anyone, male female, trans, CD or any other flavour just let us know how you identify. ***UPDATED Also open to Dom(mes) as well as subs***
To keep this simple you will need to provide at least one, clear, new photo of yourself (face can be excluded) with a hand written sign that has the following. The title must say "Verifying" then under that your Kink Talk user name and the date. In the photo you can be nude, in underwear or clothed as long as your sex is verifiable. If staff have any doubts they may ask for additional proof at their discretion.
If you are not the shy type you can post this in the verification media section (just be sure to let a mod know you have done this), if you want to be verified but not publicly displayed then send the photo in a pm to an ACTIVE staff member (most often me), yes you can now include pictures in pm's, bonus!!!

***** Updated Jan 2019 - Custom title offer is now closed *****
As added incentive and for a short time only I am offering early verifiers the chance to add a custom tag to their verified status, things such as "Verified Kinky" or "Verified Slut", etc rather than just "Verified female/male/CD,etc" The tag must be reasonable or it will be rejected.

Oh and one word of warning, anyone trying to scam us with photoshopped verification pics could earn themselves the title of 'Suspected fake" or "Catfish" so only use your own, freshly taken photos.
 
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marissa353

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Do you foresee anything on the forums being limited to verified users in the future? Otherwise I have a feeling there's not too many people who have doubts when I say I'm a trans woman :D
 
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Currently nothing in the pipeline. This is totally optional and really here for anyone who perhaps has been questioned about their authenticity to put that doubt to rest. If this is something that doesn't bother you then by all means just carry on as you are.
I must say though, given how many times this has been requested I expected more of a response. So far I have verified 3 people...
 
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I must say though, given how many times this has been requested I expected more of a response. So far I have verified 3 people...

I suspect the feature requests were made by people who feel they need to be provided verification - not by those who feel they need to provide them...
 
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I suspect the feature requests were made by people who feel they need to be provided verification - not by those who feel they need to provide them...

I think verification is a good thing as you can do it anomalously, not showing your face, so there is really no reason not to do it when you life permits time to. I'd much rather play with someone who I can be pretty sure are what they say they are.

I think it would take a long time to get everyone verified as people tend to come and go for different periods on here and it is still a choice if you want to be verified or not but I think the more people that do the better the site will become.

I have sent in my verification photo tonight pretty much as soon as I saw the posting about it and I did it help show others I'm who/what I say I am. There are a lot of people out there on the web that are not what they say they are for one reason or another and if people on here are to be trusting of other members then verification can help bring that trust. I did it to help others have the confidence that I am what I say I am.

Ok, we all hide behind our id names but that is different, that is for anonymity from the wider world and not the same as claiming to be a 6ft red haired, large breasted, femdom when in reality your a inwardly suppressed gay guy looking to get some action with another guy and think you'll improve your chances by presenting as a female.

It is also good you can be verified according to how you identify yourself, After all we all know there are more sexes than just male and female.

I like many others wonder when contacted by someone if they are who they say they are, especially if they claim to be female. Personally I have no problem playing with girls, guys, tv, trans, or whatever but I'd like them to be honest about who they are.
 
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I suspect the feature requests were made by people who feel they need to be provided verification - not by those who feel they need to provide them...

I agree and in fact the lack of response kind of confirms this, but it is there for those that want to take advantage of it.
Perhaps it will eventually lead to ads containing "will only play with verified members" or something similar?
 
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Last call for anyone wanting a custom verified title under their name!
I am closing this offer at the end of the year so only 12 days left, after that custom titles will need to be earned with special effort or deeds.
Just read the start of the thread for details or contact me if you are unsure or have any questions.

You will still be able to become verified and get the Verified titled but not the extra custom tag.
 
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This is the last day to get your "free" custom verified title, the offer ends at midnight today so any requests posted or pm'd to me before that cutoff will be honored.
After today custom titles will need to be earned with special effort or deeds.
Just scroll up to the start of the thread for details or contact me if you are unsure or have any questions.

After today you will still be able to become verified and get the Verified titled but not the extra custom tag.
 
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The bonus custom title offer is now closed, you can still verify but this will show as Verified male, Verified female, Verified trans, etc or simply Verified.

Thanks to all those that took the offer, I didn't keep count but it was at least 20 members who got a custom title including a couple of Doms! So look out for these kinky folk as you browse the site.
 
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I have had a number of recent requests from sub female members looking for my recommendation on real female lesbian Dommes.
This a good opportunity for any lesbian or bi female Dommes to get verified and potentially pick up a free sub, lol.

As this is a special request I am also happy to give out a custom verified title as well, just message me direct for more details.
 

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Wow, well Phreaky Phebruary was a total bust, not one new verification added through this incentive! Time for a rethink...

For the month of March I am having a push to try and get some more Dom(me)s verified. Why is this important? Well trust is a two way street and just as a Dom(me) likes to know they are dealing with a legitimate sub and not some flaky catfish, subs need to know they have the real deal as well.

Unfortunately this is especially true when it comes verifying female Dommes, both sub guys and gals want to know they are dealing with a set of ovaries on the other side of the screen and not a dick.
So if you are a Domme looking for a guy or a gal to play with consider the benefits of verifying yourself. You will gain a distinct advantage over all the other average ads and get your pick of the ripe and creamy subs on the lookout for GENUINE female Dommes.
And for the guys don't underestimate the value of being a verified Dom, it shows you have taken the extra step to show you are trustworthy and legitimate by standing out from the crowd.

Remember verification is simple, you don't need to get nude to verify and it can be done totally privately by messaging me direct.
 

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