First orgasim denial

Sounds like an amazing experience.

Even though the various devices for controlling your thingie are a lot of fun, my humble opinion is that simply asking your man not to masturbate is the most exciting form of denial.

As you are undoubtedly finding out, your desire to please is fighting your desire to play with your thingie. THAT is control... THAT is power... THAT is love.

I hope you told your wife how much you enjoyed her verbal denial and I hope that your play continues to grow.

Please keep us updated.

IzzAvenged said:

Sounds like an amazing experience.

Even though the various devices for controlling your thingie are a lot of fun, my humble opinion is that simply asking your man not to masturbate is the most exciting form of denial.

As you are undoubtedly finding out, your desire to please is fighting your desire to play with your thingie. THAT is control... THAT is power... THAT is love.

I hope you told your wife how much you enjoyed her verbal denial and I hope that your play continues to grow.

Please keep us updated.

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That is so true.

When my partner was Dom and controlling my orgasms she was far more wicked. She never used a cage or any form of stopping me from touching it. She always thought cages to messy and wanted instant access to my cock at anytime. She had the opinion that I should deny myself because it was what made her happy and horny. But that is not to say I was never locked. Often I would have to wear a padlock that had a large shank bigger enough to go around my cock and balls and be locked. It is a serious quality item, can't be picked or sprung open by hitting it with a hammer, not that you'd want try hitting it with a hammer when it is being worn. To cut it off would need angle grinder, again not the place to be waving one of those about.

At first there was a problem that when my cock was soft it could be pulled off, It could make my eyes water to do it but it was still removable without the key. She was not happy about that and set me the task of improving it so it could not be removed without the key. I managed this by fixing a ring on the top of the shackle. My cock would go through the ring then my balls would be pulled forward and the padlock locked under them. This reduced the size of the opening my balls went through to smaller than my balls and so made it physically impossible to remove the padlock.


She made good use of this device often locking me in it until I'd completed certain DIY tasks and I could end up wearing it for days in a row when the only time it was removed was to bathe. If she could have found a water proof lock it would never have been removed.

When worn this lock acted as a reminder of her dominance over me and ensured I wouldn't be straying off with other women. That was her first line of defence in keeping me away from other ladies her second was to always make me wear female underwear. She knew I'm never stand the embarrassment of another woman removing my trousers only to discover my knickers.

The reason for keeping my cock touchable by her and myself was that she was very much into sexual frustration only with the denial. She often rubbed my cock and worked me up to the point of orgasm and then deny my cuming. Likewise she would like me to openly, with her around and when I was alone masturbate myself to the point of edging but I was never allowed to cum out of her presence and I'm proud to say I never did.

So verbal denial and chastity can work very well if you have the right sort of Dom.

The same for us. We play with chastity devices at times, but often they're not needed. Telling my husband not to masturbate works as well as the device. He calls my order a mental chasity belt and likes the effect it has on him.

deedeedosst said:

That is so true.

When my partner was Dom and controlling my orgasms she was far more wicked. She never used a cage or any form of stopping me from touching it. She always thought cages to messy and wanted instant access to my cock at anytime. She had the opinion that I should deny myself because it was what made her happy and horny. But that is not to say I was never locked. Often I would have to wear a padlock that had a large shank bigger enough to go around my cock and balls and be locked. It is a serious quality item, can't be picked or sprung open by hitting it with a hammer, not that you'd want try hitting it with a hammer when it is being worn. To cut it off would need angle grinder, again not the place to be waving one of those about.

At first there was a problem that when my cock was soft it could be pulled off, It could make my eyes water to do it but it was still removable without the key. She was not happy about that and set me the task of improving it so it could not be removed without the key. I managed this by fixing a ring on the top of the shackle. My cock would go through the ring then my balls would be pulled forward and the padlock locked under them. This reduced the size of the opening my balls went through to smaller than my balls and so made it physically impossible to remove the padlock.


She made good use of this device often locking me in it until I'd completed certain DIY tasks and I could end up wearing it for days in a row when the only time it was removed was to bathe. If she could have found a water proof lock it would never have been removed.

When worn this lock acted as a reminder of her dominance over me and ensured I wouldn't be straying off with other women. That was her first line of defence in keeping me away from other ladies her second was to always make me wear female underwear. She knew I'm never stand the embarrassment of another woman removing my trousers only to discover my knickers.

The reason for keeping my cock touchable by her and myself was that she was very much into sexual frustration only with the denial. She often rubbed my cock and worked me up to the point of orgasm and then deny my cuming. Likewise she would like me to openly, with her around and when I was alone masturbate myself to the point of edging but I was never allowed to cum out of her presence and I'm proud to say I never did.

So verbal denial and chastity can work very well if you have the right sort of Dom.

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I will have to remember the big, heavy padlock idea. I am envisioning something that is not uncomfortably heavy when worn with briefs, but he cannot run with it

IzzAvenged said:

I will have to remember the big, heavy padlock idea. I am envisioning something that is not uncomfortably heavy when worn with briefs, but he cannot run with it

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Well you certainly know you have it on from the weight of it. If you have underwear on it holds the weight up but I could still feel the restrictive shackle, I could not forget it was there, It certainly works as a constant reminder. When naked the weight pulled on my cock and balls slightly and the lock would swing about a bit. It was not restrictive in anyway. I easily carried out DIY jobs about the house while naked with it locked in place.
It also made my cock and balls stick forward more and so increased the bulge in my jeans which could be a little embarrassing especially when I caught women checking out my bulge. Come on girls we all know you do it.

I am very happy that you and your wife have found a new game. Make sure you keep it fresh and exciting with her.

I loved reading this! Seems like you both really enjoy your sex lives. I encourage you to keep trying new things. I might have to try this on my boyfriend soon, although he's not the type to hold orgasms like that.

Omg! These are some good stories here. I love cum denial so much! So hot letting someone tell you that you can or can't cum, being locked in chasity, sometimes days on end even. I've loved the times my mistress has told me not to cum for her. I seriously enjoy more than when she allows me to cum. Like what was said earlier it makes your orgasam even better and more enjoyable for both people. The best is when she has you work all the way up to orgasam and then tells you not to cum. Its such a hard fight. All that cum right there in the tip and you got to like suck it back up. So much fun! The best is when my mistress has me punish my balls right after too. She gives me those full blue balls and then makes me torture my balls and cock. So much fun!

My wife calls a ruined orgasm a spoiled one (the only ones I am allowed to have), and only when I have an accident. This morning during my tease and deny session I was begging her to let me spoil it for her, as always her answer was "no, you just spoiled it a week ago"..........."yes ma'am". I love it when she tells me no, it makes me feel so submissive to my dominant wife.