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  1. CuriouslyInterested

    Bored

    I've noticed a few members keep copy and pasting the same ad every few days. If I can see your name and know what you posted or read your ad and know your name, other people can too. It's boring and unattractive. 1) SET YOURSELF APART FROM THE MASSES. Be creative. Be unique. Say something...
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    Advice for new (and old) submissives

    Sub frenzy is something we don't talk about near enough with new submissives. I ran across this on Facebook and it's good, solid advice for all submissives. This is written mainly directed at women and real life encounters but EVERYONE should heed the advice. The bold text is the author's words...
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    What makes you answer an ad

    So many of the posts here on Kink Talk are personal ads or people looking for play partners. Many of them get repeated and bumped. One thing I've noticed is men, both dominant and submissive, answer ads frequently where as women rarely post on ads answering them, and women rarely post them in...
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    I Miss You

    I can hear the echo of your laugh in my mind The deep, hardy chuckles burn my ears I never heard the tones of your voice, but I miss reading them and hearing them in my imagination I miss the green of your eyes Watching in rapture as I hurt myself for you The concern blazing in them that I was...
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    Serious players and the search for a partner, both long term or short

    Let me start by saying there are a lot of people here that understand how the dynamics of BDSM works. That said, there's a whole lot of ridiculousness around that needs to be examined around here. If you are looking for a play partner for a one time or occasional thing, or if you are looking for...
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    Minors

    We seem to have an ever ongoing problem with minors posting on the site. While I'm sure it won't solve it completely, perhaps adding something during the account registration that reiterates the fact you must be a minimum of 18 depending on where you live might help at least a little. There is...
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    "Tell me why you're worthy"

    There are all types of submissives and dominants in this world, each participating in power exchange for their own reasons. None of these reasons is any more valid than any other, they all are equally correct because it's all a personal choice and feeling. However, whenever I see an ad from a...
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    Begging can be hot but desperate is never attractive

    Things that are highly annoying: People too lazy to put effort into what they want. Example: XXX made a post two years ago requesting a playmate. XXX has not logged in since two weeks after the original post (or alternately has since been banned). Two years later people too lazy to look at the...
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    BDSM Test

    I just completed this and it was a bit interesting. A lot of it was a no-brainer for me, but I was a bit surprised at some of the results. :) == Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 91% Bondage Receiver 91% Submissive 74% Experimentalist 74% Masochist 68% Girl/Boy 67% Brat 53%...