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    Porn Preference Shame

    Funnily enough @gbdare I actually love Tony Robbins and have read both books you mention, I've gone back to them often over the years in various situations but have never re-read them in relation to my sexuality, but I can certainly see some truth in what you're saying there, thankyou! And...
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    Porn Preference Shame

    Thanks again @droptokon, another thought provoking response. Sill some of it doesn't ring true for me, not because you're wrong in what you're suggesting, but in me mulling over those ideas and answering the question they bring up for me is actually getting me a little closer to answers for...
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    Porn Preference Shame

    @gbdare that is a really thought provoking response. That essentially I would only even find them arousing when they ARE porn, that even if I did experience them in real life, all the connotations attached to that experience would make it impossible to find them arousing. That in real life they...
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    Porn Preference Shame

    Thanks so much @droptokon! Glad to hear you feel I'm in the right place :) Whilst I'm not part of the kink community myself (yet!), I do have friends who are, and recognise through them what a non-judgemental and open place it is to discuss these things. Re the orgasm thing, it actual is...
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    Porn Preference Shame

    Thanks for taking the time to reply @sexyseniorctzn, I do find a lot of what you say there quite comforting, and you're right in that this stuff wouldn't exist if people weren't watching it, so clearly it floats the boat of many people. Re the not orgasming with partners thing, I genuinely...
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    Porn Preference Shame

    Hey all, very much new here and feel I'm probably not posting in quite the right place or even the right forum, as I'm not part of the kink community, but felt like this would be a safe space to ask this question amongst open minded people who are more experienced in the world of these...