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  1. SweetCuriosity

    Discreet Collar for a male sub

    Also too, just to add. Perhaps you might find something suitable that wasn't initially designed to be a collar perse but is a men's necklace that looks discreet and that you could alter to be lockable?
  2. SweetCuriosity

    Discreet Collar for a male sub

    Does it have to be a collar? Could it be a discreet men's bracelet for example or a ring or something that doesn't necessarily have to be around the neck? Sorry and not to sound rude, but when you say female looking, what do you mean exactly? As in, colour? The style in general?
  3. SweetCuriosity

    Discreet Collar for a male sub

    Have you tried Etsy? They have a lot of collars. What can you get away with wearing at work? When you say lockable, is a padlock out of the question?
  4. SweetCuriosity

    I need more tips

    Hi, Just an afterthought, do you have use of any equipment and toys? I know it's never as fun playing around with them by yourself and not your Master's doing, but if it pleases him to see then maybe you can do more of this? Also, some simple rope ties on your wrists you could tie maybe one...
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    I need more tips

    Thanks for getting back on that. Okay, well again this may be more generalized being that I don't know you, your Master and your likes/dislikes and limits. Whether in text, on the phone, or on webcam it's going to be hard because you don't have physical touch in play with each other. With the...
  6. SweetCuriosity

    I need more tips

    Hi, Without any specifics, it's hard to give anything more than generalized advice which can only go so far so can I ask (and no, I don't expect you tell us anything you're not comfortable with or is too private), can you elaborate any more on what you mean? You say "no interesting things" and...
  7. SweetCuriosity

    Personal Question?

    Thank you for sharing with us, and it's interesting about Germany. I'm from Australia and we all like to think we're pretty easy-going and open-minded here, but really it all depends on who you're dealing with. Some can be understanding and respectful of a persons lifestyle choice such as this...
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    Personal Question?

    This may be too personal to some so I apologise, but for those who wish to answer, how public are you with your lifestyle choice? Do your family and friends know or do you keep it private? Couples do people know of your roles to each other? Also, if you do keep it private how does that make you...
  9. SweetCuriosity

    Help a newbie out.

    Hi there, Be careful what you ask for. I had a mentor in my early stages years ago and I was lucky enough to have somebody who genuinely wanted to help and educate me with no pressure and no ulterior motives. As much as having a mentor could potentially help, I really encourage you to go...
  10. SweetCuriosity

    Too old to be a sub?

    Age is just a number, remember? The only question I feel you need to ask yourself is do you truly want this despite age, and if the answer is yes then go for it. It's never too late for anything in my opinion. If you're really worried about the physical aspects as yes, I understand that over...
  11. SweetCuriosity

    Is it possible to have a romantic BDSM relationship?

    Okay, I know this is technically an old post, but I'd like to share my thoughts anyway. What I have come to learn in BDSM and any D/s relationship is that it is what you make it. It's personal to each individual/couple/group and you can shape it in any form you like. Everybody is going to have...
  12. SweetCuriosity

    Daddy won’t play with me anymore..

    I think you need to talk to him and see if you can get him to open up about his feelings and what's going on, however, be careful not to force this as it could result in him retreating further. This sounds like there could be a complicated situation on his end (various scenarios there) and he...
  13. SweetCuriosity

    Developing a friendship

    Hi there! I have to agree with Merlin, if she has already stated to you that she wishes for you both to remain friends and not evolve into something romantic, then the best you can do is respect those wishes. I understand how you might feel otherwise, but at the end of the day, we can't force...
  14. SweetCuriosity

    Unsure about myself?

    Thank you for your responses. @Meorin Thank you for your honest opinion of my situation and I have to agree that you make some good points. I apologise I should correct my profile if that is the case as I was sure I chose Australia in the country, not America. :unsure: Anywhoo, after thinking...
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    Unsure about myself?

    Hi, New here, but not to the lifestyle. I was wondering if anybody has experienced this or has any advice? A number of years ago, I finally took the first step into learning more about the lifestyle which for me at the time, was doing online research and I had joined a forum much like this...