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    Looking for something fun to do

    I'm looking for some fun tasks to do while I'm vetting new Mistress candidates. I enjoy pain play and fucking myself for the amusement of others. Not a fan of most toilet or body fluid play. I'm happy to do longer or more elaborate tasks and please feel free to use your imagination. I will...
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    Secure online photo storage

    Just wondering if anyone knows of an online place I can store photos? Ideally free and secure.
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    Lesbian Female Submissive Reading 38 Genuine lesbian submissive seeking Mistress / Domme, please read.

    I'm not hugely experienced with regards BDSM, having dabbled with it in the past and I previously had an online Mistress who was instructing me to bring out my inner pain slut. I am looking for a Domme or Mistress. I'm very very gay and have no sexual interest in men, so please don't bother to...
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    Some of the weirdest kinks

    I don't get things like licking the toilet seat... Think there are better ways to prove submission or humiliation but hey...
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    Ultimate Degrading Questionnaire for Women

    Age? 37 Which gender do you primarily serve (mistresses or masters)? Mistress Body Type? Chunky Bra size? 38C Are they perky or saggy? Perky Are your nipples large or small? Smallish Are they pronounced all the time or only when aroused? When aroused or abused! Is your cunt shaven...
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    Modifying a dildo

    I think that I may just leave it as is and try to buy another one that's a bit 'stiffer'. Thank you all for your help.
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    Modifying a dildo

    I bought a new silicone dildo, it's softer than I wanted and bends under pressure. Which is more than a little frustrating. I'm wondering if it's possible to stiffen it somehow by inserting a stick, stiff wire or dowel from the bottom. My other concern is if the suction cup would be affected...
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    Tit bondage with rubber bands 101

    Thank you, I will give it another try
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    Tit bondage with rubber bands 101

    I'm struggling to get bands to stay on my tits, any tips? I'm a D cup and quite firm, not a lot of loose skin.
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    How to pose in a slutty fashion?

    Very nice... Thank you
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    How to pose in a slutty fashion?

    Any ideas folks? I'm not at all girly and normally my underwear is functional / comfy. My Mistress has chosen some underwear for me which is completely opposite, cupless bra and tiny g string because it is so far from my norm, she wants me wearing the slutty girly underwear. My instructions...
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    Good boy/girl kink

    I love praise, "Good Girl." It's an awesome feeling
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    Labia piercing

    It's not so much where it is, the pain would be down to the length of flesh the needle has to go through. Like you can get your earlobes pierced in the standard way, or transversely through the whole width. You could get a surface bar placed there vertically on the inner aspect, they're...
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    Labia piercing

    Yeesssss with a caveat. It would be a 'surface piercing' which have a much higher chance of rejection (growing out) and probably wouldn't be suitable for any type of tugging or weight. It would be slower to heal, take longer to pierce and more pain during healing. You'd need a bigger piece of...
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    Labia piercing

    It's worth going to a reputable piercer for a chat, not all will do it and different anatomy may require different placements - you may find that talking to them answers some of your questions, or that you may be unable to get it where you want etc. A decent piercer will be happy to work with you.
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    Labia piercing

    I looked into it and my friend has it done, so I can comment but not from personal experience. You want to get it pierced with a larger gauge needle, in the UK you'd probably be asking for 1.6mm or 2 if they have it. Then stretch after 6/8 weeks to a size you're happy with. If you do...
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    Newbie

    Thank you for the welcome. It's nice to be in a place with others who have similar interests.
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    Newbie

    Hi, I did see a sticky thread about introductions but it doesn't seem to be used a lot, so I thought that I'd just make a new thread. I'm relatively new to BDSM, I did dabble a bit with a previous partner years ago but she wasn't really into it, not was my new partner - now that I'm newly free...