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    Cigarette play - burning

    Damage to the skin may cause scarring and nerve damage - this can be permanent. Although the play may seem arousing IMO there is real risk of long term sensory loss Also, as the clit is such a sensitive area, I really would wonder about the level of pain from the burning.
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    Switches.. how did you know?

    I am a natural Dom, but do enjoy switching when she wants - it gives me a chance to experience aspects as a sub, esp if we have bought new kit or exploring new kinks. We dont have a set timetable, its just a mood thing for us.
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    Tips for dirty talk?

    Not had a lot of expereince, but we have started with Pony play. Suggest thinking about how you would interact with a dog. - Training them to 'come here', sit, roll over etc. - playing fetch, drop, beg, sit up - good with collars and leashes - rewards for good behavior, punishment for...
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    Novem-bra

    My sub is very petite and A cup, so sometimes she has to wear a basic training bra from one of the big stores
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    What kind of kink is this?

    I'm not sure if this has a term, and not sure if it needs a term ! I am the same, but just describe it as xdressing at the clubs. For me it's not the wearing of the female clothes, I like the feel of feminine materials. Male attire is very routine. Cotton shirts or tee shirts, heavy jeans or...
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    Is it cuckolding if it's just a handjob?

    for me, cuckolding is more of a mental / state of mind aspect of kink. i.e. you dont need him for satisfaction or he isn't worth your time.