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And, I feel there is an abundance of criticism towards me in your response for absolutely no reason. Yes, it takes 5 mins to find these links. But, a better job could be done in some respects, which was my entire point. A point which you acknowledge. I wasn’t attempting to start an argument, and...

Dear, I am avoiding continuing to interact with you. As, should be apparent. I am a college educated human who has been in the actual scene for over 20 years. I did not come here to start any type of argument. And, as a 22 year old, your interest in 18 year olds might not be incredibly...

So glad you know what I should say and do and how to solve things???? I was referring to your multiple other posts about teenagers not our interaction. You see…. You can’t delete things here. That’s a good and bad thing. At any rate. I don’t require your validation. Have a nice night. I have an...

Next time, try reading an entire thread before you get on an indignant high horse. Please and thank you

I never demanded anything. I created a discussion. As stated multiple times above, I have personal reasons to do such. I shall not put anyone by explanation that I do not owe anyone. I can see that my questions have very much upset you. Perhaps, you should take that to the personal workshop and...

Well, I am pretty much done with this thread. I have contacted an admin. I will also warn people in my immediate community that I currently view this as unsafe and why. Everyone have a beautiful day, and stay safe

This is not what I am suggesting. I suppose, I am not making myself completely clear somehow. I am sorry

Well, what are your suggestions??? I think a post pinned to the top of the page that includes red flags on Doms, as well as Subs, might be helpful. This may deter particular types of predators and Subs that are using Doms to actually self harm (which of course, is a pretty subjective word for us...

I think these are all valid points. I still stand by the idea that a bit of very minimal questioning could be done upon entry. And that resources for both Doms and Subs could be sent upon entry. Or, something of the sort. I respect and appreciate the work that you have personally done. And...

Thank you

Thank you 😊

Oh, I just want to make sure you didn’t think that as well as anyone else reading this. Nothing you said.

If anyone else is interested in discussing this with me and coming up with solutions, please feel free to continue the discussion. Be safe out there

Again, as I stated in the intro to this thread, this site has come to my attention for personal and very specific reasons. I submit these concerns and ideas as a long twrm sub for all of your consideration. It is totally up to you how to feel or think about it. I simply want a safe community for...

New Doms alike. Safety does not lay all on the Sub. Usually, a bit more the opposite in fantasy. But, reality wise, both are responsible

So, maybe……. One shouldn’t have to “look” for them?????

What you are saying is accurate. A predator will find their way into anything if experienced. And, the questions shouldn’t be too hard or kink shame in any manner. It’s ok to be new to the scene. Instead, I m suggesting maybe simple and obvious questions. That’s specifically for people who don’t...

Really???? I am not sureI agree. But, as a per who came up in punk communities where kink was highly accepted, I might be a bit biased. I have been sub oriented for as long as I can remember. I still think my points are valid. However, I digress. Aye….. I also see your point. Sorry for the...

But, do you not think that a “vetting “ process or some entrance questions might be a good idea?