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    about cockrings

    Hey guys&gals been a while (actually forgot I regged here LOL) but I`m back seeking for some advice. I got a bit of a problem with coming fairly quick but discovered a few years ago having a cockring on helps with this quite a bit, the only problem is it has to be pretty damn tight in order to...
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    Please please Advice needed. Is he Bi or is it just a cock fetish? How can i help him and not hurt myself?

    If it's more about getting one up in the chimney, would anal play be something you guys would consider? Like you doing him with a dildo? While I don't actively fantasize about it I've at times wondered how it'd feel to get a sausage stuffing even though I do consider myself to be 100% straight...
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    The rope bra

    This has quickly become one of our favorite things to do, though I usually do it slightly differently like routing the ropes from behind the neck strap when coming round the tits to make sure the loops won't unravel even if not pulled awfully tight. Another thing I love about this is you can...
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    beginner questions

    Went to order some thigh/ankle cuffs, saw what they cost, went F that noise, popped into a local supermarket, got a couple cool looking faux leather belts and went to town :D Left them long on purpose for now, they can always be cut again but adding length would be far more tricky. EDIT: dear...
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    beginner questions

    Already ordered a bondage specific kit of of ropes, bad kitty brand, 1x20m + 2x3m from a local shop I`ve never heard from before and as a happy accident doing so discovered they have a wide selection of plus size garments we`ve been struggling to find at an affordable price. Also as an update...
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    beginner questions

    I hope posting this kind of a picture isn't breaking any rules. Bar made, not my finest weld work but it'll hold for sure. Also welded some rings to the wrist cuffs, all equipped with pull trigger drop shackles with purposefully color coded pull strings, in case of some sort of an emergency I...
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    Weird new sensations...

    I also find it kinda funny how extremely spesific my turn-ons are :D a shoulderless black shirt is a good start, even spaghetti strings ruin it. Has to have long sleeves, and a spesific length of skirt, that one shade of red lipstick and a black satin choker. Any couple of those go under the...
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    Weird new sensations...

    Sorry for spamming the forum like a kid at Christmas but I don`t really have any other channel where to discuss this topic. Anyway, in a fairly short span of time say less than a month I`ve discovered something completely new to me... example A) When my wife dresses up in this super hot long...
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    beginner questions

    OK a quick update on this situation... has someone drugged me and this is some weird fetish dream LOL? I sent a picture of a spread bar to the wife asking if this would be something she`d possibly be willing to try. Got a two word reply: always wanted. Okkkayyy so a trip to the hardware store...
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    beginner questions

    I also Bumped into a device called a "panic snap" that could be incorporated into the rope weave at a key location to provide a quick getaway, any thoughts on those?
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    beginner questions

    Thanks for the replies, I'll look into the links with proper thought later on. Droptokon it wasn't that exact harness I found elsewhere but basically a variation of it yes. I was thinking maybe combine the bra thing but do it pretty lightly with a bottom part of the harness thing? The thing is...
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    beginner questions

    I`d want to try bondage stuff with my wife but as I mentioned in the bra thread she has claustrophobia, so I`ve been trying to do some research on this but most stuff I`d seen look rather painful and my goal is more on restraint not to hurt her I don`t think either of us would like that. I wanna...
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    The rope bra

    Thank you for this, this is definitely something we will be trying in the near future. My wife says she wants me to take control and has hinted towards wishing to be tied up but is also very claustrophobic so I`d think this would be a good entry level thing as it`s not tying her down to anything.
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    Holy Heck!

    You're right communication is key, it just can be an incredibly daunting task to force the words out for someone as introverted and shy as myself specially fearing that the reaction can backfire in a major way. Super glad it didn't though as we've been having more of the most amazing sex of my...
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    Holy Heck!

    Hello good folks of the KinkTalk forum! Just found this place and wanted to do a formal introduction but figured since this is going to be so long I wanted to make it a new thread so grab a beer, have a sit and let me tell you a story! So yea, I´m a 36 yo straight guy, married with two boys...