safety

Hi! I enjoy hitting myself and love doing it for my dom, pushing my limits and seeing how far I can go is exciting… but I am afraid to actually hurt myself, I don’t wanna permanently damage my body… so! If anyone could leave any links to resources or tell me their own tips about where or how to...

So @droptokon ’s post on ghosting got me thinking. Here’s his post. https://www.kinktalk.com/talk/threads/ghosting-happens.51855/ Countless times I come across ads here on kinktalk. Most times it’s a sub seeking a Dom or guidance or a mentor of sorts. I try my best to oust the ones answering...

hi there! so i have very sensitive nipples but i am a fan of nipple torture. what are some safe ways to enhance pain without it being crippling whilst wearing nipple clamps. i’ve heard of applying hot sauce and stuff but that’s a bit to extreme for me as i am extremely sensitive. if i post...

Helo there, I‘ve recently been getting more into buttplugs and I‘ve realised that I lowkey enjoy being forced to have one inserted for long periods of time. (What is a safe time period for buttplugs?) What I am looking for is instructions on how long/when to wear a buttplug and how often I am...

Hi everyone, I wanted to know more about your experiences with being exposed and consensual blackmail play… I’ve started getting more and more into it specially because there’s a huge adrenaline rush but I know it can be dangerous. I’ve only sent really compromising stuff to one dom, whom I...

The gates of hell are kinda cock rings and kinda chastity device. Does anyone know how long it is safe to wear them?

Are safewords necessary? Since I became aware of BDSM, a safeword has always something which I'd thought was necessary, and I didn't know there were different thoughts about it. However, I was recently reading a thread in which it was being argued quite well that it wasn't. Some key points were...