Are you happy with your vagina?

[Doctor Pervert]

Something I came across recently was this article on women's attitude to their vaginas. Sadly it seems in this survey 48% of women responding indicated they were unhappy with the appearance of their vulva in some way.

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I'm wondering how the vagina equipped persons of Kink Talk feel about theirs? Do you dislike the appearance in some way, do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to? Do you envy the look of others, have you considered or had surgery?
If so why? Do you feel pressured to conform or do you simply prefer it looking some other way?

All thoughts and comments welcome, the poll is anonymous so if you're not comfortable sharing then you can add your vote anyway.

 

[nina]

Do you dislike the appearance in some way
Yes
do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to?
Want to
Do you envy the look of others
Sometimes
have you considered or had surgery?
No
Do you feel pressured to conform
No
do you simply prefer it looking some other way?
Yes, a little prettier

 

[KpopSlut]

Do you dislike the appearance in some way?
No

Do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to?
I did when I was younger, but now that I'm older I've realized the only opinion that matters is my own and I don't give a shit lol

Do you envy the look of others, have you considered or had surgery?
No, but ngl I haven't spent too much time looking at vulvas on the internet. Lol

If so why? Do you feel pressured to conform or do you simply prefer it looking some other way?
Like I said, I don't... but I think that this is just because even in porn there are a few features of vaginas that seem to be fetishized in some way, and so women often find those features desirable.... they feel like if they are different from what media shows them, that they're wrong and need to be fixed in some way.

 

[wh0re2015]

vagina equipped persons of Kink Talk feel about theirs?

Do you dislike the appearance in some way?

Yes, i feel it doesnt look tidy like it should and parts stick out which is embarrasing.


Do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to?

I think it looks tidier when shavednor waxed, so yes i do this.


Do you envy the look of others?

Yes absolutely, i wish mine looked prettier or tucked in more. Its just embarrasing tbh


Have you considered or had surgery?
If so why?

Yes i have because of the look. I want it to be tidier, smaller and neat.


Do you feel pressured to conform or do you simply prefer it looking some other way?

I think its pressure from the way everyone else looks.

 

[GoodGirl]

Do you dislike the appearance in some way?
No.

Do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to?
I (partially) shave for my own comfort, and my partners easy access (which I encourage).

Do you envy the look of others
Yes! Especially the ones that are quite opposite from mine, they have a different charm.
Mine is all large and in charge, I'm fascinated by the modest little gems with hidden pearls.

Have you considered or had surgery?
Yes, when I was younger I considered it. I've received some unkind comments that made me insecure.

Do you feel pressured to conform?
Not anymore. I'm a limited edition, baby!

Do you simply prefer it looking some other way?
No, mine is nice in its own way and a little unusual. I'm quite proud of it (BCE).

 

[AmyFlowerGirl]

Do you dislike the appearance in some way?
No i like it the way it is although the inner lips are a bit big.

do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to?
I usually like to see it shaved fully. If partner asks for hair i can let it grow

Do you envy the look of others
Never. Every one is special their way

have you considered or had surgery?
I have considered few years ago to cut off the big lips but doctor said it may reduce sensation, so..

Do you feel pressured to conform
No
do you simply prefer it looking some other way?
No

 

[Dory Bluetang]

Do you dislike the appearance in some way
Yes.
do you shave or wax because you feel you have to or because you want to?
I don't.
Do you envy the look of others
Oh yes.
have you considered or had surgery?
No.
Do you feel pressured to conform
No.
do you simply prefer it looking some other way?
Yes I do.

 

[Yo.]

I love my vagina the way it is.
And yes. I shaved it because I want to.
And no. I have not done and do not intend to do any surgery.
Do I envy? No of course. Every vagina has it's own charm.

 

[Wishofbeat]

I love my vagina the way it is.
And yes. I shaved it because I want to.
And no. I have not done and do not intend to do any surgery.
Do I envy? No of course. Every vagina has it's own charm.

Amen, personally all vaginas have their character, take it or leave it (guys and girls, don't trust porn) it is you, and I promise that there is someone (or several) that will love it