bf wants to try femdom, not sure if I'm able?

[ruscoe]

I have been in a steady loving relationship for almost four years now. My lover has always enjoyed it when I played a dominant role and I do so to the best of my abilities. However, as of recently, he has been watching more and more intense femdom porn and he wants to try it. I've watched a lot of it with him and I do enjoy watching it, but I don't know if I can do it. I am having trouble talking myself into it, as he grew up in an abusive household and I don't want to step on any landmines. I also have difficulties with saying and doing things that would in any other context cause physical or emotional pain, especially to the man that I think so positively about. He has given me permission to do pretty much anything to him, but I just can't see myself doing it. Is there anything in specific that I can do to enjoy domming more?

 

[jackous]

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