Blackmail kink?

daddyloveone

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So the reason I am posting this is because I want to know about the blackmail kink, I am curious about it.

what I know about bm:
So If a person comes to me for blackmailing I would prefer to take his or her kinky pics or vids with face and target thier social media accounts or someone close to them if what I order them to do is not fulfilled.
Of course for the person there is a way out if they really want to by saying a specific word which was decided before the play.

So is this all there to the blackmail?
I prefer to be the blackmailer as I get to have power over someone.

I want to hear the thoughts of someone who has done blackmailing or been blackmailed
 
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andrei

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I went through one. As long we decided it was sett;ed we established rules about a safe way then it was fun and ok.
I allowed access to my email accounts at that time.
But we stopped when I said it. This is indeed a powerrful thing but I appreciated I did it with someone who did know how to play and stopped when I asked. Otherwise I could be in danger.
Don't do it!

I would like to copy my experience to become someone's dom in that. But I don't feel much of urge to do it.
 
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Sissyjodi

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Hi yes I have been blackmailed before. Back when yahoo chat was big i use to frequent the gay chats. Talk with guys and was always attracted to the dominant ones. One in particular from Australia i found interesting and we chatted alot. After a while he wanted to see what I looked like so i sent him a pic. As you guessed it escalated into sending nude pics and i have to admit i got a big rush out of the risk of sending him these pics. He started to get to demanding for me so i stopped communicating with him. Every time after that when i went into the chat he was there. He would reveal the fact that he knew my name. Then what i did for a living and said that i would hate if someone i knew ever saw the pics he took. I knew i was fucked because through our conversations prior to me sending him those risky pics i did reveal alot of my personal life. What state i worked in what my wifes name was what i did for a living. Somehow he researched and put all that information together and told me how much postage would be to the states if he sent the pics to my work and address. I knew i was screwed and spiraling into doing what ever he said. Letting him take freeze frames of me performing sex acts with objects and ultimately shaving off all my body hair and my head. Through fear of being exposed and the kink of letting it happen I became a cam sex slave.
 

daddyloveone

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I went through one. As long we decided it was sett;ed we established rules about a safe way then it was fun and ok.
I allowed access to my email accounts at that time.
But we stopped when I said it. This is indeed a powerrful thing but I appreciated I did it with someone who did know how to play and stopped when I asked. Otherwise I could be in danger.
Don't do it!

I would like to copy my experience to become someone's dom in that. But I don't feel much of urge to do it.
Thanks for sharing your experience you had a good time in a way cause you did it with someone you trust
 

daddyloveone

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Hi yes I have been blackmailed before. Back when yahoo chat was big i use to frequent the gay chats. Talk with guys and was always attracted to the dominant ones. One in particular from Australia i found interesting and we chatted alot. After a while he wanted to see what I looked like so i sent him a pic. As you guessed it escalated into sending nude pics and i have to admit i got a big rush out of the risk of sending him these pics. He started to get to demanding for me so i stopped communicating with him. Every time after that when i went into the chat he was there. He would reveal the fact that he knew my name. Then what i did for a living and said that i would hate if someone i knew ever saw the pics he took. I knew i was fucked because through our conversations prior to me sending him those risky pics i did reveal alot of my personal life. What state i worked in what my wifes name was what i did for a living. Somehow he researched and put all that information together and told me how much postage would be to the states if he sent the pics to my work and address. I knew i was screwed and spiraling into doing what ever he said. Letting him take freeze frames of me performing sex acts with objects and ultimately shaving off all my body hair and my head. Through fear of being exposed and the kink of letting it happen I became a cam sex slave.
I am curious how you were able to get away with, cause the person wasn't to keen on letting you go.
Controlling a cam Slave is a turn on for me ngl but of course consent is needed unless it's blackmail.
 

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Beware.
Check the laws in your jurisdiction and you will most likely find that, as in most western countries, legally there is no such thing as consensual blackmail. Just blackmail.
The same as there is no such thing as consensual rape, or consensual assault which is where some BDSM players have found themselves on the wrong side of the law and been charged and even jailed.
It doesn't matter if the consent is given verbally, in writing or by video testimonial it has no standing in law.

So if things go pear shaped and your victim decides it got too real and wants to set the law on you, you have no defense. Is it worth that?
 
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I am curious how you were able to get away with, cause the person wasn't to keen on letting you go.
Controlling a cam Slave is a turn on for me ngl but of course consent is needed unless it's blackmail.
Hi, well I didn't tell my wife. She just thought I was going through a mid life crisis or something because of the full body and head shaving. I kept performing his sex act's with various objects and positions until I landed another job, then sold my house and moved. So he no longer had any damaging information on me. But to be totally honest when I think back on it, it is a huge turn on! Thinking about giving up control like that never knowing if I was going to be exposed for real and exposing myself like that to someone who truly enjoyed it. Like I said huge rush and turn on. He actually contacted me a few years ago trying to get things going again but I had none of it and knew how he played. He did send me some still pics that he took from the caming saying remember this, trying to entice me. Well that was my experience I hope you found it interesting.
 

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We agreed on a safe exit if I wanted to. And the blackmailer respected it.

Did I mention?
I always used a new identity, no links pointing to my real social media. And I was never asked for real life info.

My blackmailing was an exposure game where I could still have control over my limits and my photos.
The only stress factor I needed was a face photo (can't say it was a good idea, but I was hiding my face in the nude ones)

I was careful, anyone should be extra careful. Think of the worst can happen before trying. Include the idea of having your computer attacked by a virus for identity stealing or ransomware if you are not experienced in this area. Your real identity must never be put at risk.
 
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I went through one. As long we decided it was sett;ed we established rules about a safe way then it was fun and ok.
I allowed access to my email accounts at that time.
But we stopped when I said it. This is indeed a powerrful thing but I appreciated I did it with someone who did know how to play and stopped when I asked. Otherwise I could be in danger.
Don't do it!

I would like to copy my experience to become someone's dom in that. But I don't feel much of urge to do it.
I would love someone like you to dom me because i feel like you would understand that trust!
 

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