Can stripping be humiliating?

droptokon

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Here is a question I have pondered and indeed discussed and argued many times over the years;
Can stripping naked in front of someone be humiliating?

Now I'm not talking about the playful striptease type thing choreographed (well or badly depending on intoxication level) in the bedroom, no I'm talking about undressing in front of a guy and in particular for this discussion a Dom who watches impassively as he instructs you.

This is something I have done often and quite enjoy for the varied reactions I get. Some really enjoy being instructed to disrobe one item at a time as I inspect them, others cringe and blush in embarrassment at this treatment.
In discussing this recently with a sub she raised the now quite common soft porn known as "casting", where an inexperienced model is photographed from fully dressed to fully naked in a series of steps. Here is a good example:

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She felt this is a particularly humiliating format and that it surely must put a lot the potential models off porn entirely.

What do you think? Do you girls find this at all humiliating or embarrassing or does it look like fun? Guys, is this sort of thing a turn on for you or is it just too clinical?

Any relevant stories or experiences are welcome too, lets see if we can get a bit of a discussion going and see if stripping really can be humiliating!
 
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Chrisukm

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stripping

hmmm interesting,

So I've never been instructed to strip one item at a time.......but when I scene with my Domme friend we start from a cfnm position so I strip off while she watches impassively and at this point she doesn't even comment on the fact I'm naked but often invites me to sit and chat for a while. I find this very humiliating and it very successfully puts me at a mental disadvantage. There is something about being naked while the other person is both dressed and not bothered by it....just my thoughts !

Chris
 

lucicle22

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I had never been instructed to do anything like this but droptokon believed that I would enjoy it so messaged me.

As a first timer it felt awkward but also turned me on knowing that people would be able to see me like that and judge me. However I am just starting out with loosing weight again so may redo this in a few months when I have lost some of the weight for a comparison.

I would love to hear what people think of my inspection.
 

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As someone who is long into this, i can say that depends on a person. Since i am a Master, i did not do any striptease, it was done for me, and i always require that, from both online and real. And from my experience, level of humiliation depend only on one thing. How slave/sub see herself, does she have problems with her own look. More she have, striptease will be more humiliating for her, cause she think she is not good for her owner. I often order to a slave to stand in front of mirror and do striptease, or she to record herself and then to watch. Trust me, female eyes are more judging than males, but that does not mean we just want to see naked female body. I am doing it cause i like to humiliate and i know lots of females enjoying in that.

You Lucicle did great set of pictures, from my point of view, and now you want to lose weight. If it is for medical reasons, then it is ok. If you feel great in your body, then there is no need. If you think your look will not please yours and owners eyes, then striptease and taking pictures was very humiliating for you, and if it is your kink, then probably you enjoyed.

Interesting topic, lets hear more from subs/slaves both gender.
 

lucicle22

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There is several medical reasons behind wanting to lose weight. But thank you. I am glad that you liked my pictures and yes. I did enjoy it. Was wet by the time I finished taking them and was wondering embarrassed
 

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Humiliating

Yes,

I find it to be very humiliating. Any task involving following orders and taking pictures is both humiliating and arousing for me. Having a dominant watch and give instructions impassively would definitely be humiliating.

I fantasise about being ordered to strip in this way, but it also includes an element of inspection being given orders such as:

Open mouth
Measure myself and announce the measurement
Bend over
Lift ball sack
Stand with legs apart
Hands on head
 

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I find being naked in front of people that remain dressed to be very humiliating. I've been told to strip in front of someone while they watched and it was humiliating especially as I knew there was not chance of them also getting naked, the humiliation is notched up if they then take control of my clothes.

The closest I have been to being closely inspected in any way was while having a medical check. First I saw the doctor dress normally then I was asked to go into another room with the nurse. The nurse asked me to take off my jacket and shirt, as I did she took each item of clothing and laid them on a stool across the other side of the room. When I was stripped to the waist, I was told to lay down on the bed face up. The nurse went back into the room where the doctor was and came back saying he wouldn't be long.

Usually from past experience I have found in a situation like this the nurse would cover me with a sheet while waiting but this nurse, a gorgeous looking black lady from somewhere I can't remember
just asked my if I was cold ?, I said I was OK and she replied that is fine then and I remained uncovered.

As I lay there the nurse was only about three feet from me and as she engaged me in general chit chat I could tell she was running her eyes over my naked chest and abdomen and I could see that my nipples where hard and erect, well, as erect as they get on a man. It occurred to me that she must have noticed my erect nipples long before me and that was the reason for the “are you cold ?” question.

I guess I must have laid there for about fifteen minutes before the doctor came in and the whole time I felt humiliated and was boarding on enough embarrassment to soon make me blush. The doctor came in and did his thing while the nurse carried on looking me over and then when he was done he asked the nurse to take me to be weighed. This involved leaving the room and crossing the corridor into a curtained off cubical where the scales were. Now I was expecting to be allowed to dress before leaving the room and cross the corridor but I wasn't. I hadn't even got off the bed before the nurse had opened the door and was ushering me out of it and to the left a little ways and then into the weighing cubical.

I could see people fully dressed sitting in the corridor on both sides waiting for their appointments and most of them looked up at me as I was led by the nurse. This ramped up the embarrassment and humiliation level and I felt my face go hot and knew I was blushing.

I stood on the scales and waited for the nurse to slide the bits on the scale up and down. Twice she brushed her arm across my right nipple as she weighed me, then I was then ushered back across the corridor and into the room. I asked if I could dress now and the nurse told me to wait while she checked with the doctor if he had done with me. She returned and told me to dress now and go back into the other room.

I guess some men would have thought nothing of this, after all a man being bare chested is treated differently to a lady being so. So I guess my being shy made me feel differently about it, along with the way I mentally interpreted what happened, the nurse putting my clothes just about as far as way from me as she could, the way I was left uncovered and on display to her, the way she was looking at my naked flesh, the way she put me on display to others in the corridor and then the refusing to let me dress when I wanted. Maybe it was just me but it turned out to be a humiliating experience but also fun and it was the only medical examination I can clearly remember years later.
 

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this is an odd one for me. As a nudist, being sans clothing is as natural as breathing. As a submissive and a humiliation lover, being "forced" to be naked sparks a few tinglies in my privates.

I think it comes down to mindset. Part of making any behavior outside of the "norm" feel normal is the participant's ability to pretend that they ARE normal. If they can convince themselves that they are not doing anything worth noting, then they can go about their business. When it is pointed out, however, the illusion of normalcy is broken.

So, I could walk through an airport starkers and not give a flying fuck, but if made to strip by TSA, I would probably be blushing deeply enough to give strawberries a lessen in coloring. The same would be true in Scene. Whatever state of dress I start in becomes the norm, and any change in that state would affect my mental state.
 

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I was familiar with those types of photos, and back in 2007 I lost a contest with an online friend and had to do one myself and give it to him. It was extremely humiliating having to pose from all four directions first clothed, then in underwear, then fully nude, then having to assemble them together into a collage.

I later played with a female sub online and made her pose like that on cam while I took screenshots, then assembled them into an animated gif of her spinning and stripping for her to watch and be humiliated by.
 

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I later played with a female sub online and made her pose like that on cam while I took screenshots, then assembled them into an animated gif of her spinning and stripping for her to watch and be humiliated by.
I've done this a few times as well which is a lot of fun. In particular, I have enjoying having female subs strip on cam, removing each specific item of clothes as instructed, and holding various poses throughout the process while I tell them I am taking screenshots.. These poses are dragged out longer than they need to be, increasing her humiliation. My subs have always been humiliated doing this, yet very excited at the same time, and it shows. Showing examples of strip sequences and poses is a lot of fun too, as it gives them something to compare themselves against and work towards.

Once female sub in particular has commented that she has been completely nude in front of her group of friends as part of a game of strip poker, but felt much more humiliated and exposed while stripping on cam for me. She enjoyed the game of strip poker with her friends, but because everyone else had the risk of getting naked, the humiliation aspect was non-existent. When she knew that no one else was getting naked, even though it was only on cam, the humiliation and excitement grew significantly.
 

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Once female sub in particular has commented that she has been completely nude in front of her group of friends as part of a game of strip poker, but felt much more humiliated and exposed while stripping on cam for me. She enjoyed the game of strip poker with her friends, but because everyone else had the risk of getting naked, the humiliation aspect was non-existent. When she knew that no one else was getting naked, even though it was only on cam, the humiliation and excitement grew significantly.
I find that contests where anyone can lose make your loss even more humiliating, as you had a chance to be a winner but instead fate decided that you must humiliate yourself for everyone else's enjoyment. Thus you have no choice but to accept and surrender to it.
 

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I have had my subs strip in front of me and stand or pose in submissive manner. Getting straight bois to bend over and stick out their ass, or to pose on their knees naked in the shower can be particulary humiliating.

For most people, the nudity itself is not the humiliating bit. Instead it is the fact that they are obeying someone else and completely exposing themselves in a manner they would not normally do for others. For female subs in particular, if they have body-image issues, getting naked on someone else's orders can be hard and perhaps both arousing and humiliating.

Losing in games and being forced to strip when others are dressed, or having to converse about everyday things naked while others are dressed can also be humiliating. In the end, I think it is more of a mind game. You can be "so what" with nudity but in the right frame of mind find it very arousing and humiliating.
 
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In the end, I think it is more of a mind game. You can be "so what" with nudity but in the right frame of mind find it very arousing and humiliating.
Exactly this. Context is King.

If I were giving a speech and my pants fell down in front of everyone I'd be embarrassed but not aroused. If someone ordered me to pull down my pants in front of them for their enjoyment I would be aroused at the shame of exposing myself and obeying someone like that.