Dom Frenzy

Fiery Bird

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I’m curious to know if other Dominants have experienced Dom Fenzy and how they manage(d) it.

Now my question is two fold.

Have you experienced it in terms of dominating someone or/and in terms of owning a submissive?
 
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nina

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I have heard about sub frenzy where subs can become extremely excited to submit to just anyone.

How would you define dom frenzy?
 

Merlin

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I have heard about sub frenzy where subs can become extremely excited to submit to just anyone.

How would you define dom frenzy?

The need to feel dominant getting so extreme that you would accept any sub even one that doesn't
match to you
Would sound logical at least
 
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FadedxDharma

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The need to feel dominant getting so extreme that you would accept any sub even one that doesn't
match to you
Would sound logical at least
That's how I was thinking of it.

So the original question. I've only ever experienced it when dominating someone. I haven't in terms of owning a submissive before. At least not yet. But, as quoted above if they weren't a match for me I doubt it would last long anyways.
 
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garry0993

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For me personally it have crossed my mind some times, I didn't know the term but yes I have thought of dominate girls that aren't my type but is actively searching for short term play from time to time.

But unfortunately for me, sex appeal is quite important the kinky play, and be constantly aware that I would be engaging kinky play with someone I am not remotely attracted to at all is quite the put off. Hence the lose of interest, or out of "frenzy" in your question wise.
 

Doctor Pervert

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I see signs of this happening all the time, especially when I chat to some newer subs who've had bad encounters here. The biggest problem seems to be straight out impatience, either, as others have mentioned getting in with someone incompatible but also the other frenzied aspect is wanting to test out everything at once.

Over the years I have mentored a few couples, assisting guys with doming their partner. One in particular was really problematic as he had spent years looking at kinky porn and reading stuff. His wife while keen was very new to the idea and needed to be treated carefully, he on the other hand wanted to race ahead into all kinds of things that I knew would most likely put her off. Sure enough, after a month or so he got impatient and pushed her too far. I had a couple of chats with her afterwards as a kind of debrief to help her with ideas on how to handle him going forward.

My advice is always the same, dial down the enthusiasm especially when it borders on desperation. If you can't control yourself you stand no chance of controlling someone else.
 

SUBSLUT1965

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I had a wonderful Domme Woman for about 8 years and one evening She just went totally insane. i was totally bound and helpless and she literally beat me within an inch of my life, hospitalized for 3 days with a couple broken fingers and facial bruises and lacerations, one needing stitches.
She told me She didn't understand what came over Her but said that She just lost control for over 2 hours.
I did serve Her a couple years after, and it never happened again.
was that perhaps Dom Frenzy?