Do's and Don'ts when asking for punishments or tasks.

Doctor Pervert

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This is intended to help anyone new to the site, or anyone not having much luck getting tasks or punishments they were hoping for.

When making your post.
  • Explain who you are and what you've done (or not done) that deserves punishing. Simply saying you "need punishing" is not very helpful to anyone wanting to respond, give some details and it will improve interest and the quality of responses.
  • Include some info on what you consider to be punishments. Everyone is different, what is painful or humiliating to one may not be for others. Filling in this gap will improve the chance you get appropriate responses. You don't need to (and shouldn't) specify exactly what you want, just give some general ideas.
  • Don't be afraid to update or edit your post to add more info if it seems to be you're getting the wrong types of responses.
  • Include some general info on what you have to use as well as your living situation. This makes a huge difference to the type and complexity of task or punishment that can be done.
  • Let people know if you like their ideas for punishments or tasks. Often some effort has gone into crafting a response, just ignoring them is not a good way to encourage more. If the response isn't appropriate or doable, again let them know.
  • Provide feedback, this is a major point. Update the poster of your punishment or task when you intend to do it and how it worked out. Those going to the trouble of creating tasks or punishments for you deserve something in return for their efforts. If you don't want to send photos then be prepared to send a report in some detail. A quick one line "I liked it" response will not encourage more.
As with many things communication is the key, keeping up a good dialogue will encourage more participation.
 

subzzzero

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Likes, dislikes, and limits are a huge help.
Great write up as usual Doc. Hopefully it improves the newer posts.
 

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