The kink culture is thick into Kik. IT can be a very useful tool, but more often than not I would tread safely as it is kinda a 50/50 shot you will just end up as a pic toy for some "dom" trying to get a wank. I use it best as a means of getting to know a sub and figuring out if she fits. From there it is usually a transition to skype which in my experience is a much superior tool for online bdsm and training.
That's just my 2 cents tho.
Now, in the spirit of the thread...
Take a hair brush and spank your ass with it 30 times a peice with both sides. Proceed to edge yourself 3 times after while doing nothing to stifle your moaning.
It's short and simple, and a good start to your dare day.