We have had a recent influx of new members over the Christmas period and I have noticed a bit of a trend towards sloppy or lazy posts and wanted to point out the difference between good and bad in an effort to improve the quality of posts in general.
Now its always good form to read a thread from the start so you get to understand what is going on before you jump in and add your two cents worth. If you don't you risk missing the point, duplicating something that has already been posted or just generally looking foolish.
In a recent thread after learning the inexperienced OP has somewhat foolishly committed herself to orgasm denial until July 2020 but already failed once a very thoughtful response came;
"Considering you have already cum once, 2020 sounds like an unreasonable goal. I'd say start smaller, aim for a week. Then two, then a month and change the rules as required. That way you will feel like you've achieved something instead of failing this massive task. "
Reading and understanding the needs of the poster is so important, setting tasks that are impossible to keep up with, too vague and lacking in detail or simply not appropriate to the posters likes and limits seems to happen way too often.
Next time before you jump in to post try reading the whole thread, click on the user profile and check out their likes or what else they may have posted for clues to what they may go for. Don't waste forum space with hasty, rubbish posts, they just make you look foolish and honestly put others off.
Get it right and you will impress not just the poster but everyone else reading the thread.
Now its always good form to read a thread from the start so you get to understand what is going on before you jump in and add your two cents worth. If you don't you risk missing the point, duplicating something that has already been posted or just generally looking foolish.
In a recent thread after learning the inexperienced OP has somewhat foolishly committed herself to orgasm denial until July 2020 but already failed once a very thoughtful response came;
"Considering you have already cum once, 2020 sounds like an unreasonable goal. I'd say start smaller, aim for a week. Then two, then a month and change the rules as required. That way you will feel like you've achieved something instead of failing this massive task. "
Reading and understanding the needs of the poster is so important, setting tasks that are impossible to keep up with, too vague and lacking in detail or simply not appropriate to the posters likes and limits seems to happen way too often.
Next time before you jump in to post try reading the whole thread, click on the user profile and check out their likes or what else they may have posted for clues to what they may go for. Don't waste forum space with hasty, rubbish posts, they just make you look foolish and honestly put others off.
Get it right and you will impress not just the poster but everyone else reading the thread.
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