I’m confused

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I am a 20 (f) switch more Dom but there is this guy I really want to date he’s long distance 21(m) and he asked me why I want and I said let’s go with the flow he also agreed let’s see but then stated are you sure I don’t want to lead you on is that him automatically saying he doesn’t want a relationship subtly or am I over thinking it let me know what you think